I agree devs should tell their stories.Strong disagree. Saying the dev should make content avoidable due to the complaints of fans is almost as entitled as saying that he shouldn't include it.
It a developer's vision, its his/or her art. Let them tell the story they want, without asking for special game modifications to suit your own personal preference. There are many hundreds of games here that are heterosexual MF only, with no side FF fun, so don't come and complain on those that include some MFF action or other FF events, to try to get the devs to suit your narrow taste.
Like what you like, but don't tell others they have to accommodate you personally. That is the definition of entitlement. Where "you" are the main character in someone else's game
Does anyone read a novel and then ask the author to include all throughout the book "The next scene involves violence, skip to page 377 to avoid." and "This next scene involves some unpleasant feelings, skip to page 423 to avoid."
Just no.
The problem is the difference between novels and VNs is that VNs are created piece by piece, novels are already written. Devs often do change the story to suit the fans, especially the ones giving them money. So why wouldn't people want to get the devs to change it to their way when it happens pretty often. I'm not sure that's entitlement, that's just how the VNs have often worked.