You are as I see a "Collector", the most problematic type of user, who must have everything at 100%, or you'll be really disappointed. Second problem is that you are a "Harem lover" too, the another most problematic type of user here, who think that every game must be the harem only, because you want it like that! It's hard to tell why some peoples are like that, because for example if I don't like incest I don't play the route which lead to it! I don't know if you believe me or not, but in BADIK i never seen two routes so far (Jill and Bella), and I never go though this paths, because I really don't care about them. Only thing I can do is pointed you to games where you never find something you don't like, and where you can have your wanted 100% of content.
Another thing is, as I many times said, that I think there shouldn't be games, where are both Harem and NTR, because of fairness to players. This model will never work good, because even if developer makes updates at very fast rate, it is every time split between those two, very different kinks. None of players will be pleased, because they find every update so short, from the path they play, even if Dev made it as 1Gb big. This is real curse of that kind of games.