At the time when there was only Season 1 it was really true. if you are a DIK then J/M will turn you down. But this only applies to key points that open up further relationships with girls, they don’t care how you change after that. Gameplay structure.
Same with Jill - you have to be Chick/Neutral in Ep.7 when you choose "Fight for Jill" or with Quinn you have to be DIK in Ep.6 and not be on the J/M route when you want to help her.
And guys, I have to correct you both.

You are both wrong, the best girl, here she is:
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