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and there is nothing wrong with see your way, even i agree with you about agreement and trust part.On this, we may have to agree to disagree. In my opinion, in both cases it's essentially the exact same breach of agreement and trust.
A way to visualize how I see it is relationship "circles," where the people inside the circle are acceptable for sexual activity. In the monogamous relationships, it's just the two partners. In Tommy and Heather's, it's actually also just the two of them unless and until they discuss allowing someone else from outside (and even then, only temporarily and under the terms they agreed upon). Without that discussion, Tommy and Heather are effectively monogamous too. In both cases, the cheater is having sex with someone outside the circle and breaking the relationship agreement in the process.
as i see, the agreement is different, doing the same, in one case break the agreement on 1 big and 1 small point. in other case break the agreement on 1 small point.