Yes there are people that see netorare everywhere, even where there is no such thing. But I think DPC managed them, many won't play BaD at all because they are too scared (no
harem tag), the rest are confined to the Main Girls, where he had to create virgins, lesbians and gay-boyfriends. That's the price to his creativity he had to pay. But with the Others he's more free to create, so we have sexually active girls, prostitutes, and we could also get MFM threesomes. I just hope that minority won't start to cry and shout in case it happens.
Is it NTR if John Boy is cool with it/agrees to it? And shouldn't there already be NTR in the game since Heather can give you a blowjob?
NTR is a problematic acronym because it can mean many things. That one with Heather would be Netori, not netorare, because MC "steals" the girl from another dude. The point of view is always the MC's.