If it was just some accidental shower grope or kissing, we may not count that as sexual activity..but the thing is.. that's not it..there has been inentional groping, intentional grinding, Jill rubbing herself on MC's hand and then coming from it, if this isn't some sexual activity,I don't know what is. Do you think patreon would be ok if some content creator is giving a message like ,as long as you "don't plug your aunt's hole", you can do whatever you want with her and walk away from it? I don't think so..if someone does something like this with their aunt.. that's definitely crossing the line.