felicemastronzo

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Breaking up face-to-face is the right thing to do. As they say the eyes are the window to the soul.

Breaking up via phone call or worse - text is the coward's way out. Call me old fashioned, but I find it incredibly disrespectful, especially if the relationship was important or lasted quite some time.

For example, when I'm going to break up with you Felice, I will definitely do it face-to-face, because you have a special place in my heart. :cry: :Kappa:
but if you see me in person then you won't be able to leave me, silly boy....:WeSmart:

the time for in-person confrontation always comes, but I'm not so convinced that it's always the best solution for the announcement.

the most important thing is timing: close when it is over and don't wait for the right moment
 

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but if you see me in person then you won't be able to leave me, silly boy....:WeSmart:

the time for in-person confrontation always comes, but I'm not so convinced that it's always the best solution for the announcement.

the most important thing is timing: close when it is over and don't wait for the right moment
If you look anything like that stupid bitch Jeane, I'd leave you right away. :Kappa:

I agree about the timing, but in-person confrontation is common courtesy. Anyway, it's better soon than never.
 

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I really hope he dumps JAM right after they get told Burke can't help them.

Not a scene I'll ever see unless I start chasing achievements at some point.
My actual bet is Maya will get the tuition from Stephen forced to do so by Jade. I think it's one of the major story arcs for the general story and it will happen despite the former history.
One will get different dialogs and renders depending on your former decisions but it will happen.
 

TimHawk

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It is interesting though, how he randomly lets the various girls know:
  • He tell Sage face to face (possibly the biggest risk as she's known to get violent when getting dumped :eek:)
  • He phones Bella, at least he actually talks to her, but not quite the face-to-face it probably deserved (her breaking up with him in the car shows she's the better person when it comes to that), but not a total asshole move.
  • He dumps Jade via text, definitely the cowards way out.
  • He keeps hanging out with M&J without even telling them, now we're talking total wuss.
  • He just ghosts Jill altogether (well she ghosted him first, so...).
I am curious to see how all these dumpings pan out, because yes, they have all been dumped:
There hasnt been any dumping yet in BaDIK, except Chad dumping Sage.

Meeting --> Hanging out --> Dating --> Exclusive Dating --> Relationship. Only the last 2 usually require a talk that one person wants to end it and the S8 decision was going from dating to exclusive dating. Telling those girls he wants to stop dating because he made a different choice is actually pretty polite and unexpected. As far as I know, they all knew he was dating multiple girls, so I'm kinda proud of the MC for having the courtesy to even announce his decision to the rest.

And I dont even know where Jade ranks on that, if I remember correctly she exclusively initiates every single encounter and it's all about sex. Fuckstrangers maybe ? I doubt there is smth like Fuckteachers. :D
 

shazba

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the usual rough justice to MC :D(the NTR master:devilish: )...

with Jade even the message is an excessive courtesy, theirs is not even a relationship, Jade reacts badly because she loses her toy not because MC is interested in another person, she has always known that

and with Maya and Josy once again the problem of the loan takes precedence, not telling them is for their own good, not out of fear. and then of all those left behind, at least the 2 of them won't be left alone anyway

p.s. when you were broken up did it really make a difference if it was done in person or over the phone? if it's an important relationship it's drama all the same and sometimes not being in front of each other can also be a good thing
My first breakup was so fucking extreme and in everyone's faces (got a girl pregnant in high school, her parents intervened and split us up), so nothing else registered big drama after that, just the usual tears or anger and miner stalking in a couple of later failed relationships (why do women stalk their ex's!?)

But I think any significant relationship deserves the effort to do the breakup to someone's face.

One of my friends broke up with a girl he'd been with for 2 years via text when she was overseas. That's just fucking mean! :eek:

But back to the game, at least in the mc's case, none of the relationships were very serious:
  • Sage was only really thinking about getting serious for a week or so before the mc called it off, so she wasn't really hurt at all, just surprised and a bit disappointed.
  • Maya isn't going to worry I reckon, her whole "no strings attached" approach means she'll accept it as something that just didn't work out, and she's got Josy like you said. She'll probably still be dramatic though, it's what she does.
  • We've already seen Bella's reaction. The fact that she's had doubts about it all along, and in the long run she realise it was definitely the smart thing to do, but we can definitely see she's down after the call, the mind can't always tell the feelings to fuck off. She'd already just recovered from one semi-psychotic breakdown, I'm sure she'll be fine...
  • Josy will take it hard I reckon. I think she already loves the mc, and even if she has Maya to fall back on, she really wants the mc too. She won't take it well.
  • Jill is the one to worry about though. She already thought it was serious relationship (the impression she'd given her friends was that they were already a couple). And obviously if she catches the mc fucking Bella, it's gonna take a while for that shit to blow over! :eek:
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She's got serial killer written all over her! :eek:

Her and a bunch of other girls were just from the time when Vinny was a DIK. Chances are we won't see them again.
 
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My first breakup was so fucking extreme and in everyone's faces (got a girl pregnant in high school, her parents intervened and split us up)
Did you get a babygirl or babyboy out of it at the end ? Or ... ?

Either way, thats a hell of a start to dating, I hope it didnt effect you too much in future relationships, thanks for sharing !
 

felicemastronzo

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My first breakup was so fucking extreme and in everyone's faces (got a girl pregnant in high school, her parents intervened and split us up), so nothing else registered big drama after that, just the usual tears or anger and miner stalking in a couple of later failed relationships (why do women stalk their ex's!?)

But I think any significant relationship deserves the effort to do the breakup to someone's face.

One of my friends broke up with a girl he'd been with for 2 years via text when she was overseas. That's just fucking mean! :eek:

But back to the game, at least in the mc's case, none of the relationships were very serious:
  • Sage was only really thinking about getting serious for a week or so before the mc called it off, so she wasn't really hurt at all, just surprised and a bit disappointed.
  • Maya isn't going to worry I reckon, her whole "no strings attached" approach means she'll accept it as something that just didn't work out, and she's got Josy like you said. She'll probably still be dramatic though, it's what she does.
  • We've already seen Bella's reaction. The fact that she's had doubts about it all along, and in the long run she realise it was definitely the smart thing to do, but we can definitely see she's down after the call, the mind can't always tell the feelings to fuck off. She'd already just recovered from one semi-psychotic breakdown, I'm sure she'll be fine...
  • Josy will take it hard I reckon. I think she already loves the mc, and even if she has Maya to fall back on, she really wants the mc too. She won't take it well.
  • Jill is the one to worry about though. She already thought it was serious relationship (the impression she'd given her friends was that they were already a couple). And obviously if she catches the mc fucking Bella, it's gonna take a while for that shit to blow over! :eek:

She's got serial killer written all over her! :eek:
that in Badik they will all be more or less dramatic is for sure

it's also dramatic to leave a Jill who couldn't wait to dump you first :confused:....

  • Josy's biggest fear is to be alone, and that's not going to happen, so no problem. it's a little too easy to love without ever taking a risk
  • I don't think that Maya doesn't care, but she is simply completely caught up in the loan issue, so MC is currently a secondary issue anyway
  • Bella's big signals are only for us players, the ring scene is very strong, but it's for us, not for MC, until that moment she kept MC emotionally at a distance and on the first date she ran away in panic
  • Jill by far is the biggest betrayal, if indeed we both courted, otherwise it's just microwaved drama
  • Sage continues on her begging path by accepting her role on the bench ready to take over (did I mention that DPC hates readhead?)
 

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Then, after Bella gives the mc the heads up that Jill is suffering more Tybalt bullshit, the mc runs, he fucking runs, all the way to see her, tells her how he feels, even begs for her to give him a chance while she crushes him in front of a restaurant full of people.
Anyone got a screenshot of that scene? Kinda curious now after that description, ngl :oops::D
 
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dalli_x

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I wonder why you guys are debating the separation?:rolleyes:

My MC was, is and always will be with Josy and Maya. With the other girls there is only friendship and no conscious sex. What my MC does with the blackouts I don't know and therefore can be easily excused. By the way, it has nothing to do with cowardly. I just know what I want for my MC and don't need to make him a man-whore. :D

That's why there won't be any separation pain because my MC is a fair asshole. :cool:
 

shazba

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Did you get a babygirl or babyboy out of it at the end ? Or ... ?

Either way, thats a hell of a start to dating, I hope it didnt effect you too much in future relationships, thanks for sharing !
Yeah, my daughter has lived with me for quite a few years now, so happily ever after, kinda... (want more details, ask Meushi, I think he has dossiers prepared on all members of the forum! :eek:)

I wonder why you guys are debating the separation?:rolleyes:

My MC was, is and always will be with Josy and Maya. With the other girls there is only friendship and no conscious sex. What my MC does with the blackouts I don't know and therefore can be easily excused. By the way, it has nothing to do with cowardly. I just know what I want for my MC and don't need to make him a man-whore. :D

That's why there won't be any separation pain because my MC is a fair asshole. :cool:
Unfortunately, my mc just can't control himself, man whore all the way! As long as it doesn't end up the way of the Witcher 3! :eek:
 

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Okay, smth I wanted to discuss with you guys and get your feedback how you see it. The topic is : The transformation of Maya.

So she starts of inexpirienced with guys and later on her lack of confidence and fear that she cant keep up with Josy is the focus of the 3way relationship.

And then DPC did an RKO out of nowhere, and she suddenly does an 180°.

It starts of slow, when they watch tv and she initiates sex for the first time with "we could make out, if you want". And then she goes full berzerk mode at the dorm party, when she first gets the MC hard, and then roams the empty college and ends up role playing and ultimately bends over a table, basically saying "fuck me already" and ends up almost begging the MC to cum inside her. What's up with that ?

Is it simple DPC recognising that she wasnt the most popular and therefore he decided to add to her move-set ?

Or was is that day in the library when Jill enters, and then says "Still dating, I believe" and Maya shows jealousy for the first time. Is that the trigger for her change, because she thinks she has to up her game in order to 'keep' the MC ?

Or was it to build her up as an equal to Josy, because lets face it, whenever Josy and the MC are alone, his dick ends up inside Josy somehow, thats like the unspoken BaDIk rule.

What do you guys think ?
 

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  • Sage was only really thinking about getting serious for a week or so before the mc called it off, so she wasn't really hurt at all, just surprised and a bit disappointed.
  • Maya isn't going to worry I reckon, her whole "no strings attached" approach means she'll accept it as something that just didn't work out, and she's got Josy like you said. She'll probably still be dramatic though, it's what she does.
I agree Sage protected herself will probably still hurt her but we as player will probably never see it (might affect MC-Sage friendship but again Sage is peculiar).
But a pursued Maya (especially if you choose her date in ep7 and the after party in ep8) will be hurt a lot.
And for Josy yeah no matter what happen if Josy see MC in a relationship with another girl she will be hurt.
 
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felicemastronzo

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Okay, smth I wanted to discuss with you guys and get your feedback how you see it. The topic is : The transformation of Maya.

So she starts of inexpirienced with guys and later on her lack of confidence and fear that she cant keep up with Josy is the focus of the 3way relationship.

And then DPC did an RKO out of nowhere, and she suddenly does an 180°.

It starts of slow, when they watch tv and she initiates sex for the first time with "we could make out, if you want". And then she goes full berzerk mode at the dorm party, when she first gets the MC hard, and then roams the empty college and ends up role playing and ultimately bends over a table, basically saying "fuck me already" and ends up almost begging the MC to cum inside her. What's up with that ?

Is it simple DPC recognising that she wasnt the most popular and therefore he decided to add to her move-set ?

Or was is that day in the library when Jill enters, and then says "Still dating, I believe" and Maya shows jealousy for the first time. Is that the trigger for her change, because she thinks she has to up her game in order to 'keep' the MC ?

Or was it to build her up as an equal to Josy, because lets face it, whenever Josy and the MC are alone, his dick ends up inside Josy somehow, thats like the unspoken BaDIk rule.

What do you guys think ?
Honestly, I have not seen a radical change in Maya. Sexually and emotionally, she has always been quite brave and "outgoing".

her shyness is only social, her being introverted is only a public restraint.
 

TimHawk

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Honestly, I have not seen a radical change in Maya. Sexually and emotionally, she has always been quite brave and "outgoing".

her shyness is only social, her being introverted is only a public restraint.
Not a change in her personality but in her sexuality and approach to it. She was always the passive one and afraid that 'it' wouldnt fit and then the dorm scene was like totally new territory for Maya.

Like if I wouldve asked you before the episode came out: Rank the girls in order of likelyhood that sneak into the college at night with the MC and then bend over a table to initiate sex and ends up asking the MC to cum inside her, Maya wouldve been dead last on anyones list. It was a HUGE change.
 

dalli_x

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Okay, smth I wanted to discuss with you guys and get your feedback how you see it. The topic is : The transformation of Maya.

So she starts of inexpirienced with guys and later on her lack of confidence and fear that she cant keep up with Josy is the focus of the 3way relationship.

And then DPC did an RKO out of nowhere, and she suddenly does an 180°.

It starts of slow, when they watch tv and she initiates sex for the first time with "we could make out, if you want". And then she goes full berzerk mode at the dorm party, when she first gets the MC hard, and then roams the empty college and ends up role playing and ultimately bends over a table, basically saying "fuck me already" and ends up almost begging the MC to cum inside her. What's up with that ?

Is it simple DPC recognising that she wasnt the most popular and therefore he decided to add to her move-set ?

Or was is that day in the library when Jill enters, and then says "Still dating, I believe" and Maya shows jealousy for the first time. Is that the trigger for her change, because she thinks she has to up her game in order to 'keep' the MC ?

Or was it to build her up as an equal to Josy, because lets face it, whenever Josy and the MC are alone, his dick ends up inside Josy somehow, thats like the unspoken BaDIk rule.

What do you guys think ?
I think Maya lost her fear in EP7 so she can't fuck the MC without Josy. Josy made the suggestion in EP6 that she should be there to make Maya feel comfortable.

But Josy said something else to Maya in EP6. She can drink some alcohol beforehand to make her more relaxed. In EP8, she literally pours the whiskey down her throat. But through this, Maya also finds the courage not only to fuck the MC, but also to ask him if and how he decided. "Little kids and drunks always tell the truth" and both are drunk. :unsure:

She also witnessed in EP8 that Josy is playing with the MC and teasing him. Josy then does the same thing to the two of them at the water park. The girls are talking and Josy will have given Maya some tips. (y)

Josy and Maya don't see each other as competitors and when the MC is not on Jill's path, Josy and Maya actually get their validation so there is nothing to worry about between Jill and the MC.:D
 
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