Yeah I don't get some people's obsession with NTR . I really don't get what's so appealing about it . And no I'm not a crusader or anything like that , I just don't get it
Well, first it's not a war between a pro-ntr group and an anti-ntr group, and second it's not really ntr that's the problem to begin with.
We call them anti-ntr, because whenever there is even a hint, that a MG or SG could have a scene with anyone but the MC, they pop up in the thread and either sound so angry, that you think they are one reload away from shooting up a building, or so depressed, that you think they are one step away from jumping of a bridge.
All logic suddenly fails, and they keep on spewing nonsense until everyone else is so anoyed that people start "firing" back.
Example : Since BaD is super heavy on branching, you are playing the Sage path, are locked out of the Jill path and Jill would start a relationship with Rusty. It would be pure bedlam in here, they would pop up like a never ending stream of whack-a-moles and declare the game to be ruined and unplayable and the end of the world is nigh. And there really is no stoping them with logic or run of the mill reasoning, them people go batshit crazy.
So it doesn't need any ntr to take place, it's this completely whacked sense of ownership of characters who are not allowed to have a story involving romance, let alone sex, if you are not on their path.
As one of them once said to me, when I was dumb enough to ask them what exactly the problem is "Dude, it's in the game now !!! I can't play it anymore !!!"
So the rest of us isn't really pro-ntr, I think most don't really care, but we would like it, if it was treated like any other fetish. If you don't like footjobs and there is one such scene in the game, you either don't play the scene or you skip it, but nobody comes into the thread and bombs it with threats and whining just because there is a foot-fetish scene in the game and declares it ruined.
They are trying to force their own likes and dislikes onto everyone else and they don't compromise, they are armed and ready to go to war at the drop of a hat.