When did she have -- or not have -- a "proper self-identity"? What even is that?
She's had plenty of interests throughout the game. Fashion, economics...the same topics her mom and dad are into. She joins the HOTs to have the "full college experience." If she couldn't get into B&R, she'd quit her job at the convenience store and move to the East Coast. She seems to have plenty of ideas and ambitions, and is pretty constructive when things don't go her way (e.g. Episode 11, she even starts a blog.)
She's warm, outgoing, talkative, confident, sexual, mature, and positive. Very friendly with people, and can see the good in Becky, Heather, and others.
Where does her
- "lack of proper self-identity"
- "the feeling of being undervalued"
- "being overlooked in the relationship"
occur in the game? Examples, please.
That's good to know? Ok, so you're just saying X doesn't imply Y? OK.
So...
...why are you bringing it up? Where and when does Josy have personal self-identity issues...in Episode 6?
5?
4?
3?
2?
1?
Or 7, 8, 9, 10? Or is this subconscious?
Are you saying your can read Josys' subconscious?
No, you said it's throughout the game. Not just Episode 11. Tell me where Josy has:
- lack of proper self-identity
- the feeling of being undervalued
- being overlooked in the relationship
In Episodes 1-10 please.
Keep in mind I can give plenty of examples of Josy getting plenty of 1) "identity", 2) feeling valued and 3) not being overlooked in the relationship, if the whole 2nd date and ILY is any indication (psst! Josy still goes "Wah" even if you date her and give her the ILY!)
*bomb explodes in Blue Milk's brain*
Yeah. That's how you prove stuff. With evidence.
Can you give me any indication then that what you claim exists?
Example? You are literally trying to connect a series of behaviours or sentences as a basis of ...some psych profile to explain some inherent cause, i.e. trauma. All because DPC is perfect and amazing and OMG DPC you teh writer of teh ages and
Do the work, and draw the connections. That's your job, not mine.
likely?
So you have no idea yourself?
You think you see trauma, but you don't know?
Oh I'm sorry. I thought you were the psych porn whisperer profiler.
Ok. So now you're saying you
DO have access to Josy's subconscious?
Sorry if I call bullshit, again, and again.
Again, you have to make your case. You can't just say everyone else is crazy, or blind, or stupid, and that you have the
REAL version of events.
You're only one meme away from sounding and looking like the Charlie Kelly from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, describing Pepe Silvia.
Again, give me multiple examples then. Don't just say it. Quote it. And then back it up with whatever psych 101 theory you've got. No one's going to buy your interpretation of events because you "said so."
These kind of subtle gestures can be done in writing, but it has to be done like hitting someone over the head with a feather. Like, every time they're on screen, they do the thing. The nervous twitch. The facial expression. The slurred words. etc.
In your case, you need to find Josy doing stuff like:
- always asking others if she's liked
- overanalyzing interactions and worrying excessively about being abandoned or disliked.
- hestitating to make choices without exteral approval
- saying sorry excessively, even when unnecessary
- relying on likes, comments, and shares on social media for self-worth
- pleasing others over themselves, but for approval
- taking feedback personally and struggling with constructive criticism
- having mood swings based on external validation or lack thereof.
And doing it
A LOT to
ALL THE TIME. Like in a
pattern. And then we would point to the pattern and go "OOOOH, that's why in Episode 11 she acted like she did."
There. There's a criteria for you to work with for "Josy needs help" or "Josy is concerned" or "Josy doesn't want to love Maya anymore". You can't just say "I know better" and expect anyone to take you seriously.
Maya didn't really have much of a problem before to constitute this level of concern. Josy, the MC, Sage and Jill were just fine with Maya's family issues being it's own thing, and they call cared for her. Maya and Derek solved their problem themselves anyway. And Josy wasn't exactly Maya's rock or anything like that, nor was Maya that brittle. It was tense and sad, but nothing LIFE SHATTERING. Nor was Josy given a serious mission of TAKING CARE OF MAYA! -- now that it's gone -- and she may as well give up on love and life.
I really don't see Maya's contract dispute giving Josy some sort of...meaning to her life? Was that even mentioned? (I thought Maya wanted to take care of people?) And now that meaning is gone? Seriously where are you getting this?
Citation needed. Again, you're Charlie and I'm laughing at you. DPC would be laughing at you. I'm pretty sure many of us are going "Wtf is this guy talking about?"
You're basically the other side of the Darkwen coin: he's stupidly gaga over Josy, and you're stupidly seeing some kind of hidden meaning in her. And telling everyone they're blind and stupid because we're not as visionary and big brained as you.
Like dude, just write an essay or something.
It's your theory.
You're the one who has to prove it.
You can't just say "Go read the scenes man" and expect me to do your job.
And you seriously need to prove that any of your theory is true. By using evidence and logic. It's really not hard.
Maybe you should do that before accusing of others of not seeing your genius? Might help your wild conspiracy theory there, Charlie.
That is correct. I cannot see the subtext you see.
Show it to me.
I have a feeling you don't have too many friends in your book club.
And you're Charlie.
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Oh. And welcome to my ignore list.