You're not in the wrong and neither am I,
Darkwen,
Macky009 or anyone else involved in that conversation. Because the situations Sage, Josy (and Maya) find themselves in are different, the opinions (rooted in personal outlook/beliefs) differ and that's the basis for discussion. We can agree or disagree, but none of us is right or wrong, as there is no universal human relationship or morality rulebook.
That's essentially what I said as well, so it seems we agree more than we disagree
And that's completely fine, I'm not trying to bash your opinion. If I came across as if I wanted to, that wasn't my goal.