First of all, I'm sorry to hear about your hardships. This is something that shouldn't happen to anyone, and I truly hope everything works out for you.
That being said, I'm sorry, what? What the fuck does that have to do with anything? You do know there are challenges and struggles other than the ones you went through (which you must admit, are pretty specific). I never went to war. I never got disabled. But I still was faced with challenges and struggled through life. I faced a narcisistic mother who never cared about me. I experienced mental and physical abuse. I stil managed to make something of myself, even though I'm not the man I could have been. Our lives are very different, but don't think no one else suffered just because they didn't go through the exact same experience as you.
Now, let's break down what you said about the game:
"No struggle, no challenge, the DEV did not allow Eric to be hurt." Well, a seemingly invincible opponent, that does seem like a challenge, doesn't it?
"All max could do, was call the mob to get Eric. A lot of challenge to pick up the phone, was it?" No, picking up a phone isn't a challenge. On the contrary. Max was always portrayed as being smarter than what people thought he was. The whole point was to outsmart him in the long run. From a writer's point of view, this is a cop out, because Max didn't outsmarting his opponent, if anything, it conformed that he's just as dumb as everyone thinks he is.
"If we could fight Eric, hell even if I got my ass kicked, it would be a better game." No, no it wouldn't. Because the one thing people hate to see, even more than some guy fucking their girls, is said guy kicking your ass, proving he's better than you after all. Smart people (which again, Max was supposed to be), know when to pick their fights. But no fights ever turned up. DS skipped right to the boss battle, which was taken care by someone else. It's basically playing Skyrim where you ask an NPC to kill all the bad people without your help. And also, this isn't a fighting simulator, but a porn game.