Ren'Py Bindr: Kink Dating [v0.24.1] [bindr]

egorka8018 · Sep 4, 2023

Hi everybody. My question is: why is the tag "female domination" accompanied by the position "I'm dominating, so I'll suck you off"? And there are many games with a similar plot... Perhaps I misunderstand, but it seems to me that "female domination" is based on the enjoyment of a woman, but not a man. And in this game (and in many other games with this tag), the opposite happens. The girl tied up the main character and starts jerking him off, and then sucking until he finishes. It's strange how things turned out. Then why should a girl dominate at all? The pleasure of a woman in this game, apparently, was completely forgotten... Yes, there is something in some scenes, but it's just a pathetic semblance. There is no variety of female pleasure, orgasms. It seems that the girl is involved in the process, but almost no attention is paid to her. And in many games this happens. In my opinion, this is unfair.

Deleted member 5952429 · Sep 4, 2023

egorka8018 said:
... Perhaps I misunderstand, but it seems to me that "female domination" is based on the enjoyment of a woman, but not a man.

You misunderstand things.

BDSM is a play where everybody who is involved in the session enjoys the play.
This is a kinetic novel about kinky dating, not a dark power fantasy. If you want that, there is always Karlsons Gambit.

I only played the dom path, which lacks variety by the way.

But did the women not enjoy the power over his orgasm?

antzicms · Sep 4, 2023

egorka8018 said:
Hi everybody. My question is: why is the tag "female domination" accompanied by the position "I'm dominating, so I'll suck you off"? And there are many games with a similar plot... Perhaps I misunderstand, but it seems to me that "female domination" is based on the enjoyment of a woman, but not a man. And in this game (and in many other games with this tag), the opposite happens. The girl tied up the main character and starts jerking him off, and then sucking until he finishes. It's strange how things turned out. Then why should a girl dominate at all? The pleasure of a woman in this game, apparently, was completely forgotten... Yes, there is something in some scenes, but it's just a pathetic semblance. There is no variety of female pleasure, orgasms. It seems that the girl is involved in the process, but almost no attention is paid to her. And in many games this happens. In my opinion, this is unfair.

I think the game is balanced in that part. We should enjoy our fetishes not feel sorry...

Because the majority of players doesn't like dark or maybe hateful content. BDSM as the previous user said, is mutual acceptance and enjoyment. Imagine you play a game with a very dark theme make you feel sorry for the MC(crying, suic , murdered, bullying, they took everything from him) making you feel sick for days. It happened to me too because of hateful NTR, dark BDSM. It doesn't make sense sometimes to be it so dark. You feel that a crazy person develop that kind of games. No Offence if you enjoy , or maybe you want only female enjoyment in that part.

I can recommend the Moving Down game which contains dark BDSM be warned.

JimmyJazz69 · Sep 4, 2023

The AI voices are pretty fantastic. If I didn't know, I would think they were "real" voices. I don't think I heard anything as good before...

egorka8018 · Sep 5, 2023

antzicms said:
I think the game is balanced in that part. We should enjoy our fetishes not feel sorry...

Because the majority of players doesn't like dark or maybe hateful content. BDSM as the previous user said, is mutual acceptance and enjoyment. Imagine you play a game with a very dark theme make you feel sorry for the MC(crying, suic , murdered, bullying, they took everything from him) making you feel sick for days. It happened to me too because of hateful NTR, dark BDSM. It doesn't make sense sometimes to be it so dark. You feel that a crazy person develop that kind of games. No Offence if you enjoy , or maybe you want only female enjoyment in that part.

I can recommend the Moving Down game which contains dark BDSM be warned.

And I'm not talking about dark BDSM. I like this game. Maybe I put it wrong: I would like that in games with the theme "female domination" (and not only with this theme) more attention was paid to the woman, her foreplay, pleasure, orgasm. I was talking about the fact that in many games very little attention is paid to this part of the games about "mutual love"." For example, in this game: almost every girl sucks off the main character, and he, in turn, licks the pussy of only one of the girls (if I'm not mistaken, only Soumye). In my opinion, there is no balance in this regard. And so it is in most games of this genre. And yes, I passed the game "Moving down", and yes, I really liked it, until outright cruelty, moral destruction and sadism appeared.

warrenitro · Sep 5, 2023

egorka8018 said:
And I'm not talking about dark BDSM. I like this game. Maybe I put it wrong: I would like that in games with the theme "female domination" (and not only with this theme) more attention was paid to the woman, her foreplay, pleasure, orgasm. I was talking about the fact that in many games very little attention is paid to this part of the games about "mutual love"." For example, in this game: almost every girl sucks off the main character, and he, in turn, licks the pussy of only one of the girls (if I'm not mistaken, only Soumye). In my opinion, there is no balance in this regard. And so it is in most games of this genre. And yes, I passed the game "Moving down", and yes, I really liked it, until outright cruelty, moral destruction and sadism appeared.

I agree. Seems like every other woman in this game likes to assert her “Dominance” by giving the MC a blowjob LoL

J1215 · Sep 7, 2023

It would be great if (in Femdom-scenes) could avoid blowjobs!

SwagmasterSupreme · Sep 7, 2023

J1215 said:
It would be great if blowjobs could be avoided in Femdom-scenes!

you sound severely triggered.

Frosty2000 · Sep 7, 2023

SwagmasterSupreme said:
you sound severely triggered.

Praetendent said:
You misunderstand things.

BDSM is a play where everybody who is involved in the session enjoys the play.
This is a kinetic novel about kinky dating, not a dark power fantasy. If you want that, there is always Karlsons Gambit.

I only played the dom path, which lacks variety by the way.

But did the women not enjoy the power over his orgasm?

Just curious how many dominant women in your life have you met who get their pleasure from making a guy orgasm in their mouth, while not caring at all about having an own orgasm. Personally I have met none, despite plenty of experience.

But yeah it is a fictional game, so they can do whatever they want I guess. Just don't pretend it makes sense.

MikeOG · Sep 7, 2023

Frosty2000 said:
Just curious how many dominant women in your life have you met who get their pleasure from making a guy orgasm in their mouth, while not caring at all about having an own orgasm. Personally I have met none, despite plenty of experience.

But yeah it is a fictional game, so they can do whatever they want I guess. Just don't pretend it makes sense.

It makes sense since this is porn not real life

Orwel84 · Sep 8, 2023

He still hasn't fixed this 10-15 minute message wait crap. Added a little realism to the game, in the next update girls will read and simply ignore your messages

katmandomo · Sep 9, 2023

Click outside of the screen to advance the message. I consider that a UI bug, but there is a workaround.

SonsOfLiberty · Sep 16, 2023

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