I guess if it's about the game, we are allowed to converse about the topic.
I may be a cis male, and I enjoy my straight sex, so i do believe I am biased in this.
Where can I start? The drawing board of the game? The internal thought that goes from mind to controller?
I think it was some guy at Nintendo that said, "Never make games for yourself," implying that you may need to heed the base of your fans.
But the guy was probably pissed that Star Fox Zero was a flop.
Well, maybe we start with the fan base?
Is it safe to say that the more popular a media becomes, the more demand there is of it?
Where this lays is of course proportionate to the number requests.
I can't really say for old disk/cartridge games, those were released and over with.
But we have patches. Fixes, and features to implement. I know if I have an idea for a sex game that I want to make, I'll probably fill it with tits and boobs, fallopian tubes, spread legs opened for a good molest, and undressed breasts!
Suppose I did make a game like that, hypothetically. It becomes a hit, and now people really want to put their spoon in my bowl!
Now...if he is being payed to make a game of his own design, that's on him.
However, I won't be cutting him slack anytime soon for goofing off with other people's money.