In my opinion, lots of people just have the wrong idea about Patreon. The core purpose of Patreon is to support a creator that you like and to then to get access to certain perks such as betas, special roles, polls, bonus renders, etc... But again, it's about wanting to *support* the creator primarily, and the perks are a nice bonus.
In regards to F95, the community can be really trash, no matter how popular and good your creation is. People try to tell devs what to do with their game and their story, and then give negative reviews when their kinks and fetishes are not present as if the game was made specifically for them. F95 also runs on leaked releases and leaked Patreon exclusive content, but to be fair we've all benefitted from it. So it's a double-edged sword because it's by far the best way to spread your game and grow in popularity, whilst having to accept leaked releases/exclusive content, and a sometimes incredibly toxic community.
I agree with Psychedelic, of course, just gotta ignore a lot of people and deal with it. The best and most popular games have the most insane and cancerous threads lol