Sophia IS your wife! hahaha
Seriously... in your room every day before opening for business go to the phone on the far left wall and click it. That opens your spouse screen.
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Click the phone on the wall to open Spouse Selection (Only Sophia so far but there will be more added, I think)
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Click to select your spouse to open the Spouse Options screen...
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Click the + up top to advance Sophia's standard of living. The higher it is, the happier she is...
Once you adjust that you don't need to adjust it again.
Then click on Spend Time Together, just above the CLOSE button, to open the activities for spending time...
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Sophia will greet you then click anywhere on this screen to show the activity menu...
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Play is fun time and has four options... You can choose to have Sophia be Dom or Sub (mine is sub) and whether she is a lover or a breeder (mine is a lover.) You may play these options multiple times as long as you do this before engaging in Small Talk. You can always change your Play settings during any session so feel free to try all four options. It just takes several attempts to get her from being set all the way to one side going back to the other. The change is a progression, not instantaneous. Having two Small Talk conversations closes Play for that session, try again the next day. So, Play first then gifts (hot sauce, towel and strawberries have the best points, refilled each Monday automatically) and small talk. Affection will stay active until you leave as long as you still have Affection options open.
Note... Affection is very important. You can keep her moral up with Play, gifts and small talk until you build up enough points for the Affection options. Sex requires a LOT of EXP!!! But, just keep playing and you will unlock everything in due time. Affection starts with basic foreplay and progresses to full coital sex. MAKE SURE that you have enough points to perform the action you are unlocking before unlocking it! I made that mistake once. Oh yes! Papa's going to get a blowjob, finally! NOPE! I only had enough points to unlock the option but not enough to perform that option... Ouch! I forget the actual number of points required for each option except that it's like 1000 for sex. So... before unlocking sex you want to have 2000 points stashed! 1000 to unlock and 1000 more to perform the Affection action! You only give up the points to unlock the options so as long as you have sufficient points in reserve you can perform that option repeatedly as much and as often as you like with no further point cost. Does that make sense? You'll see once you get there. Eventually, you'll have too much EXP that you don't even need so just be patient and wait until you have at least double what it requires to unlock the next option before unlocking it.
Once you are done with your Spend Time session, click Leave and exit back the same way you entered. You can see your current affection level in the graphs on the right side of the Spouse Options screen...
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Those EXP points that I mentioned are listed next to Affection on the right. That is how you know how many points you currently have available to spend for unlocking options. You can see that my Favour is at 100/100 and my Attention will be back at 100/100 as soon as I spend time with Sophia again. I lost 1 Attention between yesterday's visit and my current visit. You can still have sex with Sophia during pregnancy until it's almost time for her to deliver. Once Sophia is ready to deliver your new heir, she will go to the family building to recover and spend time with the baby. All time frames are compressed so the wait times are not too extreme. Pregnancy lasts a couple weeks at most then she spends a few days at the family building then returns for your regular visit availability. She can be on her woman's cycle after child birth which means no sex until that is over but it doesn't happen every time she returns from being pregnant. I thinks it's a random post delivery occurrence but I haven't officially test that yet. I just wait a few days and we chat in the meantime. Oddly enough, Play is still available during that time and Play involves sex as well! Hahaha
Not sure if that is an oversight or intentional but I'm not going to complain! Play is FUN!
Hahaha
My point is that if she has her cycle you can still visit, Play, Give Gifts and Talk to maintain your Favour and Attention. Both take a hit while she is in the family building without your regular visitation. Those numbers are directly linked to the amount of time and attention you give to Sophia so they decrease when you are separated. But, Spend Time Together can easily restore those totals to full value as long as you do not ignore Sophia.
Just the fact that you knew Sophia's name and your successful progress in game told me that you already have Sophia as your spouse. It's an automatic event triggered by story progression. So... I hope this helps you, my friend!
If you have questions please feel free to ask and adventure ever on, Phat