Yeah its literally the murder in video game argument and Trono-10 is correct, I did not add the gay tag, people flagged the thread to get it added by moderators or something. I just viewed gay as two sweaty man bros going at it, just as you did Torvis00 since you came specifically looking for the husband to get some MC dick in a game with a gay tag. That's why I didn't initially add the gay tag.
Yeah, unfortunately, the gay tag here is handled as this: If you ever touch another man's dick, it doesn't matter if it's a second or if you hold hands, Bam, gay tag. Particularly, Riley is not a futa, or trans, so yeah, he's still a man, a very feminine man, but a man. So by the rules it must be added.
I do not like it, because I have the same definition of Gay as you, and many of the gay guys will come looking for more masculine men than Riley or even a full arc with men, or a gay MC. Even worse, it's just one character between a women harem, so I'm not playing the game. Even though I must congratulate you, the MC is very manly and attractive. You did it good on that aspect.
I'll keep my opinion on loli and shota tags for myself, I don't want to mess in your thread, and honestly, you have a good game there, so press on. Good luck dev.