Oh if you mean before the options then yes i agree that it forced but it changing certain paths or characters you can'tNo, there was a flashback with Hana being bullied, but the unavoidable lewd scene with her was not a flashback. It occurred right before her swim meet.
Not sure how you can say "never forced on you" and then say "2 options, vanilla or maledom". That is leaving out the option of walking away, so yes, she is being forced on you.
Hell, I wanted to reject her offer to do the weightlifting. The only family interactions the MC would be interested in (imo) right now is helping Sophie heal, figuring out what Ashley's major malfunction is and making peace with her, telling Alex to "talk to the hand"*, and sitting down with Nora to hash out what HER problem is so the shares & control issue is dealt with.
* thats an expression meaning to ignore someone (holding up your hand as if to say "stop" so they can talk to it because you're not paying any attention), it is not a threat of physical violence like it might sound like if you are unfamiliar with the term.
You just want to avoid her regardless of path yes i agree