Tricking women into doing sexy things with magic or lies is kinda rapey to me. And that's the part I don't like.
Akabur, in his latest one, even shies away from that. The women in Star Channel decide to do the sexy things on their own for rewards. Jasmine wants the popularity; Hermione wants the study time; Lara wants to explore more ... yeah, that kind of makes them prostitutes in a way, but it's their choice. They could say no and leave at any time and the coercion isn't the same.
The Four Elements Trainer does this well (if you ignore the "slave" route).
One of the things I liked about Witch Trainer (even though Genie is being deceptive) is that it's clear that Hermione LIKES what she is becoming -- she is enjoying it by the end and looks forward to it, being an aggressor herself for what she wants. More of that in these games would be very welcome.