You must know Tom Cruise literally harasses girls in the bar as his only pick up lines and even in the female bathroom, to the point the Military Police come get him - effectively validating he is a total and absolute creep women should/would rund for the hills from, yet the movies, both MAverick young and old get the girl they sexually harass - it is what some wildly successful movies portray as courtship - deal with it!
I don't care how good the girls look. Just no.
Banging the nanny - Robin William married the nanny he sexually harassed avoiding the sexual assault accusation, Arnold Swatzwnwggwer supported her financially to the point her kid - his kid also - looks like a 1 to 1 copy of him in the glory days,
while others simply throw money into it - those are way more taboo than poor hook up ettiquette - not to mention many if not all vialins simply grab or rape girls with impunity for a lot of the game time - Ataegina school girl harasser is even portrayed as being seduced by the school girl - how many teachers got away like that IRL? - some did, some did not - blaming the victim who, for the most part, does not press charges and tells nobody who has no chance to know of this being just a poor attempt or full on sexual assault.