No male contacts in phone, other than my Hooters boss. I'm charging the ring at Kelly's (bar). I've not tried Faen yet for charging. To get the ring I snuck into Faen via the window, rather than going in through the front door (via the password and dressing up).
BTW, for anyone else who's interested, it's a lot easier to get the ring (or bracelet) from inside Faen rather than from the guy at the beach gym. It takes a lot longer to boost strength enough to beat him than it does to get the 4 levels of dancing skill (from class) and rubber-jointed trait (from yoga) that you need to sneak into Faen. Or you can spend money to get a nice evening dress and shoes and walk in the front door. However, going in the front means that you'll have to randomly search rooms until you find what you're looking for. Sneaking in takes you right to the item.