1. Disagree, most of the stories I have read they don't find out dick size until after they guy has won the girls over. Maybe you are playing a game where the guys are walking around with it sticking out more. Usually it is due to several factors and those can include the big stick, but it is most certainly not exclusive.
2. Disagree see #1
3. Agree, but fantasy encompasses a whole lot of things for a whole lot of different people. Some people will most certainly agree with you. So people will most certainly agree with me. However fantasy does not just mean one thing and generally the best fantasy is one that blends fantasy elements (which could be simply a fantastical story) with some level of realism so that the person enjoying the story can see themselves in the story. It is called immersion.
Anyway, like I said we all have our different takes. I am not saying you are wrong, be as mention it is subjective so there really is no right or wrong. I have written stories, including a few novels, for over 30 years. I have never worked on an AVN, but I am pretty well versed on writing stories to fit different narratives for a fairly wide variety of people.
Hey there. I see what you're saying. But to be fair, you're counterpoint is addressing something I did not proclaim. I think you may be presenting a straw-man's fallacy.
Nothing I stated in point#1 addresses what I've experienced in most games or what exists in most games. I did not indicate about the "most of the stories" present x, y, or z. What I opined is that "it is
unrealistic to see a an unnoteworthy nobody to be such a casanova gigolo (i used the term pussy-marauder), unless he's packing."
A unseemingly unremarkable dime-a-dozen, lost in the crowd, nobody that is neither super-rich, super-suave, super-strong/athletic, super-intelligent, super-powerful (position of power), nor super-endowed are likely not going to be desired by the babes like Chloe's, Lindsays, or (other game), Sages, Joseys of the world (in real life).
The point I made was to illustrate what I believe is most writers attempt to address the unrealism by making them legendarily endowed. Sometimes too much (as is the case in Lust Theory IMO). Thus my conclusion that games such as this are a fantasy.
What many were pointing out is the MC in College Kings is a rather unremarkable looking nor endowed to have the adoration he receives in the story. I agree that he is rather unremarkable in many ways, and I can understand why this would make it hard to suspend disbelief for some. It doesn't ruin the story for me, but nor does it make me enjoy the story more just because he doesn't fit the stereotypical trope.
And for what its worth, most of the games I play as well, they find out he's packing AFTER a time is spent wooing them in other ways - just as you indicated. BUT word spreads about his legendary status, and it makes ancillary characters now suddenly interested that wouldn't ordinarily give him the time of day otherwise.