Neither do I like it.
Humiliation is either a form of violence (a victim living with a criminally and psychologically pervert); some part of a BDSM relationship, which is a way of life (and if one is to read about it, the power dynamic within said couple, is more complex that one would think); or a role-play and teasing amongst a functional couple.
It's the same for NTR, it can be a way of life: cuckold, hot-wife. Or be some bedchamber role-play, or some games played from time to time.
Most of the games fail to understand that.
Yesterday I tried a game, you're walking in the street with your girl, a creepy dude shows his dick to you both, and if you want NTR you're suppose to stay and watch! For real! Whom would do that?!
Then you are doing your girl in the kitchen, some dude open the door, which was closed but not locked, and you're suppose to show him her pussy!? WTF! In real life I'll probably smash the dude's head!
In, unfortunately, most NTR games there is no couple dynamic, and you're suppose to be ok with your girl doing some dude whom should be either kicked in the balls and/or sent to do community service, if not in jail!
There's no sexual fantasy, no teasing, no: they met a dude/girl with whom they build a dynamic which might lead to some hot stuffs, no role-play like they go to a hotel and pretend to be colleagues instead of a couple.
So many possibilities...