First of all I would like to say that it's nice that someone is making a game with these fetishes, it's rare when this kind of stuff isn't just done as a punishment in a harem game. If my memory serves me well, after talking about having the wife "help" she flirts and engage with the residents without the husband being present and willing even when NTR mode was off, this is something that while not making me drop the game entirely, goes against what a "pure netorase" is, people here need some level of control and assurance of the love the partner has for them, otherwise it would be more like open relationships. Adding to that also my personal nitpick that I don't really like being too much of a hidden voyeur.
Right gotcha, I definitely need to calibrate the flirting to kissing to foreplay to sex stuff, the next update I'm starting on the Netorare stuff so I have to anyway. But if she does it with both Netorare and Netorase turned off that is definately something I need to look into. I think what you are saying and correct me if I'm wrong is that you want to decide the time and place she does stuff and having her go off and do what she wants is not that level of control? Hidden voyeur does tend to be my thing, sorry for that. I do want more scenes where the player can control and direct things, like Shani at home when you tell her what you want to happen.
The sections of the game where the character can bring home some of the girls is interesting and it gives more control to the whole thing, shame that when I played there weren't many things implemented in this aspect, I would love to welcome the Nun into my house. The thing is that in a sharing/netorase game you have to have pretty tight and well placed scenes in the story that show the gradual acceptance/corruption of the partner in regards to the fetish, maybe it's a little harder to do that in a sandbox-ish game, sometimes the immersion was broken for me somehow
Yeah I'm trying to get that progression with the talk to flirt to kissing stuff, I should probably expand on that, events should be linked to the NTR progress variable so that it gradually happens. You could place some key events every couple of corruption points the spouse gets or even incorporate progression scenes variants to each girl, although this can be pretty heavy work for you. I can't offer much more in terms of "how a sharing game should be" apart from the basic pointers because the game itself doesn't have enough content and I don't want to violate the developer's vision of the game with my personal suggestions.
One thing I would like to add is that the game has futa on male action, this may not sit well with some people. After all that being said I enjoyed the game, some characters are goofy in their own way and I was even a little surprised with the Kabbalah lessons
That has surprised a few people yeah 
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