Yee no worries, this is fun.
So, 1. Most likely. Dumb question from me rq, have you checked out the games at the front of this thread? Specifically the 8/10-10/10 ranges? Stuff like Secret Care Cafe and Gyaruzuma are my personal favorites. SCC being closer to what you'd like I think. The Adventurous Couple is also a major staple, although I haven't played that in years. Suffice it to say, yeah.
2. I dunno how to respond to this LOL. Feels like advertisement on my end, which I don't intend to do. But simply: My ultimate goal is making a JP-style game where the MC and the LI are madly in love, and that doesn't change in any shape or form, or in any step of the way. What happens in it entirely depends on what you like or not.
3. Tough question, honestly. I personally like the former more when done... at all
Every single one I love (there's three total lmao) is in the master list's 10/10, so you can find those there.
But there is a difference. There's very little.. heartache? Or nervousness in the latter's games. It's more confident and sexually explorative. From the little experience I have with them, the characters don't hesitate about the sharing, while the former does. I have no fucking clue if I'm explaining that right, but yeah.