I personally side more towards Bogdan2033, but also do get the opposite "don't touch the poo" perspective. However, nearly every dev is just abrasive to a disgusting degree, and have egos like for example bubble lord, I think it was, who called Bogdan a nobody? We going there?
Nobody on the entire team is a DrPinkCake and Wsan is carrying the content people come for on his shoulders, even though he comes off pretty abrasive too at times himself. Nobody likes cait, nobody gives af if she can get pregnant besides boosting their baby counter, take your bot votes somewhere else. Atugia isn't the same character after her introduction, same for azyrran. Aronas ok, good job. Hugs alright can't have delays or issues but Bubble lord can because "he has a life" so Berwyn happened. Quin having cgs of his butthole are not the problem, it's who the butthole is attached to; a bigger butthole. Kiyoko has a good amount of content, then treats you like your next ex wife. Agnimi-who? Ethe-alypiaselfinsertfanfic-ryn? Berwyn only being popular because of art? Howd those kinu commissions and fan art do for her popularity, or the novellas tobs made?
All the devs and many of the fans have chips on their shoulders and have tons of triggers. Tobs and bubs go from 0-100 real quick, whether you're in "please reward me for your presence oh mighty BLESSED WRITER OF COC2S KITSUNE DEN, I have a question about the lore, you write hundreds of paragraphs about a character walking surely you can grace me with more than one word!" Or not, same responses. Hit, get hit, be rude, get rude back, sure, but they all have random specific traumas, helspawns an example, and there's tons of random in jokes or lore people are supposed to know or else they're treated as idiots to be laughed at publically, "how dare you ask a question that was answered 3 years ago lmao are you mentally exceptional" etc.
Whether the devs were at one time decent people that became standoffish or not, alypias about the only one that seems to at least have a facade of answering questions and being polite when treated politely. After you're dogpiled by people and the devs it can make you get grudges, which I'm sure they're all familiar with with the rants they go on about random characters from years ago or the "Berwyn just got art ok" defenses. They don't have any devil's advocates, any discussions are wrong and unwanted, while the "disgusting shady sites with people that are dumb" actually can without a cult and cult leader dogpiling.