To add to the list.
The devs are adamant that there is no rape or ntr in the game but then you have shit like.
- Marefolk shaman rapes your companion while you are forced to watch and feel it, written by tobs
- Demontaur brutally rapes Cait while you are forced to watch, written by tobs
- The hornets rape and egg Cait while you are forced to watch, written by tobs
- The hobgoblins brutalize and rape Brint and Brienne despite wsan stating that Brienne should not be involved with any dicked npc and even denying Savin from writing a scene with Arona, written by tobs
There are also cases where savin and bubble do this but tobs is the most egregious case by far. And as much as it hurts so say bubble at least has the decency to give you the option to not watch it happen while tobs makes a point of the enemy forcing you to look at it.
He has zero sense of game balance to the point of thinking that writing a single encounter that is immune to the current meta damage type is good enemy design. He also openly mocks people who complain that disarm or silence completely shut down their builds and and makes attempts at comedy with shit like "Oh no! My monoculture is failing! Who could've foreseen this?"
Then people were complaining about Whisper one shotting them before they were able to get a turn in and his response was "Get a turn in dumbass" and when it was revealed that crits did way more damage than they should and that Whisper was indeed OP, he didn't even bother to apologize to the people he made fun of.
There was a hilarious moment on discord where balak made a chonky post detailing all the things wrong with Kiyoko and how she was way too strong with too few weaknesses and all tobs had to say was "well I don't doubt she is strong, even jax says so". Another time balak asked savin why he made his comps so weak in the stat department and, I am 99% sure this was a jab at tobs, he said that "doesn't make his characters OP just to feel special". Also Kiyoko's weapon scales off of willpower so whether she gets silenced or disarmed her damage output is unaffected. But yes, Tobs, people should just stop complaining about unfun game mechanics and pick up your precious companion who covers every single niche.
He also loves to speak directly to the player. Not the character, but the person playing the game. His content is overflowing with 'what did you expect', 'you asked for this' and other stuff denying any responsibility for what is currently happening and pinning it all on the player because they skimmed his great walls of text or missed some overly cryptic bullshit.
Don't even get me started on the kinu content. That whole thing is a single straight line from start to finish and it goes like this.
Champ is bad parent who abandoned their kid and wife for 10 years and champ accepts that by apologizing for it -> Kinu gets engaged someone and you learn about it from anyone who isn't your family because you're a gaijin and champ is super angry about it -> family home gets raided and burned and Kinu saves the day, champ is super angry about not being involved -> it happens again and champ is super angry about not being involved -> to be continued and champ is super angry about not being involved
So it's princess maker but tobs really hated the fact that in those games you could choose how to deal with the psychos after your daughter with the options including doing it yourself. But the problem is that in princess maker the princess can FAIL when you decide to toss her to the wolves and tell her to fend for herself. Here that is not the case and Kinu's success is guaranteed because Champ's kids can't come to any permanent harm. The only emotional impact comes from tobs intentionally choosing to remove Champ from the content and not anything that actually happens in the story. Kinu will survive, everyone will survive, Taoth will be dealt with by yout daughter who, despite the fact that your kids get nothing from you, got your amazing smarts and champ will be go from angry to happy that their daughter killed a god.
On the forums he justified his decision to make Kinu deal with it herself by saying that he is playing a DnD game as a princess who got sent far away to learn on her own and is super grateful about it. Can't make this shit up.
EDIT~
How could I forget that he also wrote in her tailfuck scene that Cait had sex with clients back at the temple before she left. You know, she left the temple with her dad and sister. On her eighteenth birthday, when she stopped being a minor. Some guy raised that on the forums and the people there sounded like they defended that shit. Yet another thing you can't make up. Tobs is such a stand up guy and model human being.