Just noting that you're riling yourselves up for no reason. If you enjoy being angry knock yourselves out, but I'd recommend a healthier pass time. It did wonders for me.
There are two problems with this argument. First one is that you're heavily speculating on everyone's state of mind here and basing it off yourself. Someone who spends their time on this forum might really be making themselves miserable by wallowing in spite and all that good stuff. But they might also just be using this as their timewaster instead of some other forum like reddit. That on itself isn't productive either, but even then there are levels to it; NEET spending all his time on this forum vs someone who has a piss easy job with lots of downtime. And then there's the fact that no one ever fully optimizes their own existence anyways so it's fine to have some meaningless stuff that you do.
Problem number two would be that you're dispensing fundamentally futile advice. It's rather optimistic to think that someone stuck in the type of rut you're describing will just snap out of it simply because a random user on the forum came along and opened their eyes to some prophetic realization. In most cases like these people are typically aware of their issue, they just choose to ignore the reality of it, like we do with so many other unpleasant factoids about ourselves.
you need a vagina for a baby. the devs find vaginas gross and hate them.
devs like boobs, cocks, and assholes. but no vaginas
I actually think that this is not exactly the case. Savin, even. Shocker, I know. He might have some cock fascinations but I think his number one obsession is the female form. That seems to be the common theme with his OCs and he seems to consistently ship his dickgirl OCs with his vagoo ones. At least in TiTS it's more prominent, I think. And he seems to always roleplay as extremely feminine characters. He's basically the type of dude to prefer porn games where you're the female protagonist that gets passed around. Explains why Cait is such a major character. He's also probably the type of dude that watches mostly lesbian porn. This is all pure conjecture, of course, but it just makes the most sense to me.