Nah man. I’m pretty sure BDSM is the porn that most women are into. Maybe in anime communities it’s yaoi, but in general it’s bdsm definitely. As a woman, I can tell you a lot of women are into S&M, they just won’t admit it. Where did you think crappy novels like Fifty Shades and Twilight got their popularity from? Not to mention the thousands of fanfic written by girls and women about chaining up their kpop idols in both gay and straight manners...
I have my own theories about why Fifty Shades got so popular, especially with a certain crowd, even tho the writing was bad (imo) and the BDSM aspects were problematic. But I don't want to get too off topic so I'll just say, please get better taste yall.
I don't think it can be generalized which porn most women are into, unless someone takes a poll of every women in the world. I have friends who are super into yaoi over any other genre (and weirdly enough they are usually the type who like femdom if they have to go to other genres), patrons (I work at a library) who devour amish light romance novels and others who love grittier paranormal romance, my mom who can't get enough of holiday/seasonal "feel-good" romances, and then myself who is into smut - paranormal/sci-fi/modern doesn't matter just gimmie a hot guy and a customizable PC. While I do also enjoy BDSM, it's the D&S that I like, not the S&M.
My only issue is wading through the games on here that obviously don't seem to be written with women in mind. CoC/CoC2/TiTs at least tries and has some content for us, which is why I check back on the progress to see if there are scenes I'd be interested in. Like if anything with Brint gets introduced I'm down ofc. But as an example, I recently got back into Girl's Life and it's like 90% of the sex scenes involve dudes who just want to get off and it's explicitly stated that the PC doesn't cum, she just gets used and then the guy goes on his merry way. Or the dude seduces the PC and then when she consents he's suddenly like "YOU WHORE." and it turns into a weird "how dare you spread your legs for me, you deserve to be abused" scene lol. I don't like when being sexually submissive in these games means you want to be degraded and abused, that's a specific kink and not 100% what being submissive means. But it just seems like a lot of porn games go the asshole "dom" and doormat "sub" route.