This... is unironically, how i have been playing the game recently, treating the MC not as my own character but as a NPC that other characters can have sex with, i literally have to disassociate with my own character to enjoy the scenes and it made me care even less about the story
While i don't even think the erotic writing is bad (for the most part), it's just that i can't get invested in ANY of the characters, i can't get invested in MY character because it's personality changes drastically depending on the author or the unique traits that i choose to have get ignored in favor of the "Author's Vision™" for a scene, and ironically, i can't get invested in the NPCs because they are either someone special OC with very detailed backstory that i don't fucking care, OR have one-dimensional personalities and only exist as vessels for kink (which isn't necessarily bad, only that i cant get attached )