I dunno, at least how I played. I didn't feel cucked. I was together with Cait because I didn't have to worry about the feeling of cheating on my partners. Like, if I was with Brienne that after two dialogues she's basically wanting to marry my PC, and I was like. wow, hold there girl, we're just on Act 1. I don't want that.
I'd say the same for Kiyoko, but Kitsune content sucks, and the fact that is gated behind Dicked characters and pregnancy BS fetish made me never even want to interact with them after the first time.
I feel like, some characters move too fast to, one night to incredible attached the next day, then I don't like it. I think Cait and Brint are there for players who don't want anything serious or the feeling of cheating on others while still at the beginning of the game.
I mean, in my case I play as a pure female character, boring, I know, but I like it. I never played the super sluty character either. But like. The first time you talk with Cait, she'll tell you, "Look, just because we're fucking it doesn't mean I'll stop fucking others, blah, blah, shit religion excuses, etc." And I am ok with that. She warned me ffs. Would be worst like in Brint's case, where I learned that the dude is really into you from the beginning, but is around town also fucking everyone. Heck, he even tells his mother she might have a bunch of new grandsons in Hawkethorne already by the time we reach her.
I don't know how exactly other ppl play. But in all honesty, I never once got a scene where I was forced to watch Cait do something that or I wasn't around or couldn't hold her back. Even the dude Pavo from a quest that she asks if you want her to suck his dick in your place IF you don't want it to get some items, I can just say. No. Then I beat the shit out of the dude to get the items I needed.
Cait's only issue, in my opinion, is that, on one hand, she is super sweet and if pursued in a more romantic way is starting to show deep feelings for the champion, heck, the girl even sneaks up to sleep with my champion when I go to sleep alone now. This is kinda sweet tbh. But again, the way she's written to be JUST a slut is annoying. I know her story is meant to show some growth to her when we reach Tychris. But until then, there's nothing really to show that she's growing as a character after we get her father back. Even the temple, if built doesn't change her character at all, except that she now lives and works there as a full-time whore when not with you. Which again is warned in the game that doing it will attach her more to her religion and the marches, etc. Another thing we can avoid by not building said place. Because her religion is shit, no matter how I look at it.
I just wish some writers stopped using her sluttiness as an excuse to attempt in making me feel bad for not wanting to fuck their characters. Yes, B and Bubblelord I'm looking at you both.
This is what I think, don't need to hate me for having this opinion, ok? I get why ppl hate her, I'm just saying why I personally don't hate her.
