Thank you very much for the wind force suggestion, which seems to do the trick for me. Ironically the Cum Pro Pack doesn't explode nearly as often either. It's like it lacked "direction" without the wind force input ^_^
Edit: Oh that is pretty nice and looks fairly realistic too, but DB XXX's Pro Pack 2 does NOT work well with windforce sadly. Thanks again for the suggestion though, it is like ten times better than what I could produce before. I can't post links yet, but when I can I will share one of my animations with you; it's not blender level but it's adequate