I'm in the same boat as you two, but Mrdots says on his website that if you want to support DMD you should not do that on Patreon. Alot of his supporters do that anyway(me included) but according to him, the money will not go to DMD, but maybe he has the say that, but just so people know. I buy the coffee stuff too, but idk.
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3-Can I get DMD if I donate to Patreon.
No, Patreon no longer welcomes DMD, so please don’t pledge there if you only want this game. See the link above."
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