Let's break this down a bit:
I like your kinks, your art, and your intensity(Thank You), but you don't love the medium. You have no idea what makes adult games special.(Shit talking ....good for you, put in appropriate receptacle)
Nah, not really. We can tell.
If you hire a French chef to cook at your Italian restaurant, don't be surprised if he substitutes butter for olive oil, cream for tomato sauce, and white wine for garlic. He may be a great cook, but he doesn't love Italian food, and everyone can tell.
This isn't a quiz, I'm not challenging you to answer this question publicly, but come on: can you name five adult games you truly love? I don't think you can. Because you're coming at the medium like a French chef cooking at an Italian restaurant.
Every single one of us can plug some terms into google and find some porn where a dude is dominating a girl. But we don't get the opportunity to put ourselves into that guy's shoes, to see through his eyes.
This image is from a game called Nexus. I like your story better, I like your ideas better, I think your kinks are hotter. But with this, we get to experience something we wouldn't be able to, ordinarily. She's looking AT US with that expression, under OUR control.
So I'm not trying to "talk shit." I like a lot of what you're doing, and I'm asking you to reconsider some of your approaches, because I think I -- and most others -- would enjoy it more as a first-person experience. The edginess of your depiction of power is rare, and I wish I could experience it more fully.