I'm not sure where you got the idea that either of us think that the woman at the end and the blackmailer MUST be the same person. Honestly, I don't believe, even for a second, that they are. I DO believe that the woman at the end is 100% talking about ruining Vanessa's life, purely based on the amount of Elysium she had. The main reason being that when Ashe first bought it, the bags were $150 a piece. There are 7 on the table. Assuming that when Spike said they went up in price, the maximum they went up to was double, then that still means that amount on the table is between $1,050 and $2,100 dollars of Elysium they are willing to throw away JUST to fuck up a party. I can't see Ashe having any friends, much less enemies, willing to throw away money like that, much less in that quantity.BaDikGirl, Hungover00
Assuming you're right, it turns out that the mystery woman with the Elysium bag in her hands (in the finale of episode 5) is hardly Victoria. If only because no one at a party expects a visit from an unknown milf that no one invited...So it appears to be someone third, and it may be about ruining Vanessa's life, not Ash's.
On the other hand, even if this stranger manages to stage a wild, uncontrolled orgy at the party involving Ashe and Vanessa, even with the possibility of partial media publicity, it's unlikely that the latter will suffer in any way, given the virtually limitless administrative and financial resources of her mother Moira.
And if the stranger's speech about “ruining her life” is about Ashe and not Vanessa, then the "Victoria blackmailer" theory hardly makes sense (at least in Ash's “sex education” interpretation) and it turns out that the blackmailer is someone else.
In my head, I haven't decided who the blackmailer might be yet, the evidence for either theory is too shaky (imho), but one thing is certain (and I doubt anyone will argue with it) - Delilah is directly involved, and even if someone is behind it (like Victoria), the weakest link in the scheme is she, and I really hope Ashe has the sense to press Delilah at the party and get her to come clean.
Or maybe it really is someone unknown to us, someone who genuinely hates duplexes. Perhaps the same person whose blackmail eventually led to the suicide of that media star/streamer who had to admit to being a duplex. Either way, I'm hoping that phrase from Siren's route description finally starts working, and in the next update a dominant Ashe starts beating the shit out of blackmailers (whoever they are).
However, I don't believe that the woman is Victoria. Personally, I have spent a few weeks going through and making a detailed timeline of events for myself, while also looking for one specific thing... flowers. The picture at the end that shows the case of roses, shows what looks like two stems with missing flowers. I still have a lot of ground to cover in my in depth look, but so far the only times flowers really show up are on Lexi's shirt, Siri's shirt, and on the coffee table in Fiona's house. I am most likely chasing down a total phantom there, but I would rather chase down a phantom and eliminate it, at least for me, then leave a loose thread hanging in my mind.