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What you are speaking of, is NTS or Sharing. And it sounds like NTR is not your jam - which is fine.I get what you're saying and understand that this is part of the history/common themes of the NTR genre, but does it necessarily have to be that way? Can't a female partner crave having sex with another guy because it's a different or novel experience rather than an altogether better or more satisfying experience? We all like some variety sometimes to keep things interesting and thus sometimes will seek out new experiences, which does not amount to seeking one thing that's better than the previous thing; sometimes people just crave something different.
Also, if the female partner feels more willing to perform certain sex acts with another man when it's something that her significant other desired to do but was denied, then it would seem like either it's time for a conversation about why she's denying her loving partner this experience (and ideally figure out what can be done to share this experience with him) or it's time to let her partner have the experience he's being denied with another woman. Otherwise, it comes off as being selfish and insensitive in relation to her partner's desires.
Speaking of the humiliation aspect of NTR, this is the main reason why I have had difficulty warming up to the genre. If I were to have some kind of arrangement with my female partner like that, I would try to take care not to say things that might make her feel as if I want another woman more than her or that she's inferior to some other woman in some way, and I would expect her to try to do the same (and of course maintain open communication). However, I know that not everyone feels the way I do, so I'm just expressing my opinion/personal preference when it comes to imagining myself to some extent as the FMC's partner.
But NTR inherently invokes negative emotions, and deals with such "darker" topics (like inferiority complex).