i am with you here it's silly being locked out by refuse
it should say maybe later
i investigated what happen when you say no or yes
and over 200 variables was set or changed in that action
but
naughtyboy1241 i don't understand why you don't have a save before
that blowjob
there are almost unlimited save slots
I can tell you how it happens exactly, at least how it did for me. That part of the game is a grind. You're clicking through the street work options of show tits/show ass, dance, show naked tits, naked tit dance, etc. Spam clicking along, trying to get something new to see, but really, that grind is pretty boring, and so you go through a bunch of days w/o saving because it's just monotonous. Suddenly, you see BLOWJOB, and holy shit, you click it right away, but you're hit with a "If you select this option you will close other scenes" and you're like "nah, I've been grinding to see everything, I won't do this yet", so you refuse because you think you're going to come back later to it.
but apparently Stranger 1 only wants a blowjob on that ONE day, never again. And he's not there every day, either. so by the time I realized I wasn't getting the BJ option again, almost another week had passed because I did a photoshoot, worked at the Shiny Hole a bunch, and did more street work grinding, and then saved randomly over my previous save on top of that.