That's an interesting question (sorry for commenting so late, but this actually does capture my imagination). I think the answer is: yes, it could. It may seem weird to femdom lovers in general that it would be "femdommy" to force a man to behave like a maledom to her. But in the end "the biggest sex organ is the brain" and it's all about the mindfuck, so if in this situation the man feels forced and used and the woman ends up enjoying the fact that he feels forced and used, then I'd have to say the form that this "forcing and using" takes is of less importance, more like a personal taste. I understand your reluctance, but consider this: if the man and the woman in this case felt more or less the same feelings that you feel when you're dominated by your wife -- if they had the same subspace-domspace internal feelings --, how could they explain any of that to you other than saying it was femdom to them? It certainly wasn't vanilla, and they'd probably refuse "maledom" as a descriptor. I guess sex is usually a mind game, and trying to attach it entirely to external circumstances is bound to end up leading to some paradox.
(I once had a girlfriend who wanted to roleplay a rape fantasy. She wasn't much into submissiveness, but she enjoyed this one thing. She wanted me to do a bunch of rapey things that I have no interest in -- frankly, raping a woman is just a total turn-off to me, it's like trying to have sex with a wall. But she insisted and even got angry at me, so I thought quickly and brought up some of my femdom interests, which she wasn't into at all, but she said she would "order" me "sternly" to do the things she wanted me to do. And well, it kind of worked... a little, at least. Humans are really weird beings.)