Well, perhaps this is it.
I usually like to see where me (female MC) will go through the game. Will she suffer? Will she take revenge? But of course i will go down the submissive path. And so every time if she will have sex, i am kind of in both of them. But i am more interested in her than the male perpetrator. So i do not see the male but rather her. I hope that makes sense.
well, we''re not going anywhere, let''s just say we disagree.
PS: I don't focus on male characters, I'm a lesbian I don't like them, I just said that because it's annoying to be in a game like awam and see how many men treat the male characters as if they were the main character.
Edit: I don't know why you brought up the ugly bastard thing, I haven't seen many western games that use it and every time I see a Japanese game that uses it I see more people complaining than liking it.