I've wondered this too. You have games where the MC gets cucked and the "domme" is getting dicked down by "BBC" that treat her like a bitch, and somehow that's being "dominant" and "dominant women want cock sometimes too". How is her getting humiliated by other men femdom? But femdom fans get so hostile and defensive over anything being pointed out. To some extent I even understand why "normies" as some call them hate femdom so much, I can't stand these "femdom fans" myself and I enjoy femdom.
Cuckolding is kind of its own thing, and most NTR fans I've seen acknowledge that, so I don't really mind them. Though it kind of annoys me when maledom fans get pissed at these games for existing as if anyone forced these idiots to play them, I'm mostly tired of psychological torture stuff like Karlsson's Gambit, Vicious Circle, or fetish-heavy stuff like Domina and Tower of Trample. It's like they associate femdom with liking anything but pussy and breasts or being treated like disposable trash for not being dominant enough. This is coming from someone who likes humiliation. Femdom is about being dominated; it's not about "not being manly." It's kind of giving the message that femdom is only for men with low confidence and objectifying perverts. Also, these games look ugly af lol. I wish there were more femdom focused games with visuals like Race of Life.
I don't want to yuck anyone's yums, but it also pisses me off how much these games dominate the femdom market.
There are different flavors and it's broad, but the key point is dominant, assertive women enjoying themselves using a man (or woman in lezdom--which to me is unique enough to have its own descriptor). If there's NTR it's NTR, if its cuckold its cuckold, if it's violence pron it's violence pron, torture porn is torture porn etc. They can all be within a femdom context, but they are not somehow more femdom than a woman jumping on top of her husband, pinning him down, and fucking his brains out.
It's because they associate "getting pussy" with "being strong and worthy" and not something that both party enjoys.
I'd definitely like to see more sexually aggressive, female pleasure focused femdom games. FemMC or otherwise. But they are exceedingly rare. The oddest thing is that this is the one area where in an LTR generally speaking most women as they gain confidence and comfort tend to get better at expressing their own wants and desires, it should be even easier in a video game to get to that, but it's like the vast majority of devs and players have zero real life experience in anything. But can that really be the case? It seems unfathomable, so it's probably a case of just catering to that demographic of player and not trying anything else. Femdom games themselves are an extreme niche after all, and these games do mostly target self unaware losers, maybe that's all there is enough for it to be financially viable at all.
TBH, I wouldn't want realism in my games either. The whole appeal of porn games is that they're unrealistic to me. The problem with me is what these games represent. Though yes, if you want to cater to a niche audience, you have to have a lot of free time and money because these games are hard to make, and if you can't make good cash out of them, you'll probably have to make them as a hobby. I mean the whole adult gaming industry is already underground enough to begin with.
