Speaking of Wuxia/Xianxia, I have spent a great deal of time trying to find more femdom-inclined ones, and there are a few where usually in a fantasy world based on Chinese mythology (I'd actually describe high fantasy Xianxia/Wuxia more like LOTR but based on ancient Chinese mythology) you have a cunning female lead that raises from a really low level of cultivation to become an immortal demigoddess that rules the entire world, but the plot twist is that she always, bar none, has to have a male love interest whom she will never be dominant towards. (they might even be submissive to him even though they tend to be very independent and even domineering towards other characters) That's my biggest turn-off about those stories, but some of them will have very strong-willed and even amazingly cruel and dominant towards their rivals (mainly other women but sometimes men too) female MCs, so there definitely is some enjoyment that can be derived from them!
Generally the best ones in terms of writting quality that I am aware of have a male MC (like Grandmaster of demonic cultivation or "Mo Dao Zu Shi", written by Mo Xiang Tong Xiu - it even had a donghua, which is Chinese anime, AND a TV series adaptation), but, as I said, there is Xianxia with female MCs that kinda rise from rags not to riches but to immortality and pretty much conquering and co-ruling the world alongside a male love interest, so if you want Xianxia with a quite dominant, intelligent and powerful female main character that beats up, punishes or humiliates people that had wronged her in the past or challenged her, I was for example currently reading this one:
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Beware that it has 1238 chapters and I am myself only about a tenth of the way through, but at least so far the writting and English translation is decent and there are even some nice humiliation scenes of other characters by MC. She is very calculated and at times doesn't speak much, but when she does and has the upper hand she isn't afraid to break social norms and would even openly belittle, confront and/or humiliate her step father and step sisters, (who treated her like garbage before she becomes powerful in the story when she was young) and even her male love interest, the ghost king, while sometimes annoyingly overprotective of her, loves her and tends to act either on equal terms or even somewhat submissively towards her most of the time. It's far from ideal, but this story is one of the most "femdom" Xianxia stories I've ever come across, so if that's what you're looking for have fun!
I quite like Mu Ru Yue, the "enchantress" female lead, and I think fellow people here interested in Xianxia might like her as well!