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[Aseratrix]

 

[Aseratrix]

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[Mister_M]

Ok, after a LOT of thinking, careful consideration and scutinizing every single detail of every nanosecond I still don't feel it. Anyway, Kraftwerk would never agree to work with him so it doesn't really matter.

In more serious tone, merging of electronic and guitar music is obviously possible and Arjen seems to know what he's (they're?) doing. Personally I don't think I'll be a fan after what I've heard, but I'm not saying he couldn't write a piece that would be kraftwerkian to some extent.


And that reminds me a funny story that probably won't interest you, so here it is. Kraftwerk visited Slovenia in some early 2000s and played there and met with Laibach guys after the show. At the time Laibach took part in VA compilation album (then still unreleased) titled Trans-Slovenia Express Vol. 2 for which they made a cover of their own Brat moj, but this time they made it into a "Kraftwerk" song titled Bruderschaft. So, when they met in a club DJ was playing various songs, a lot of them obviously from Kraftwerk (as it was an afterparty) and one the songs was Laibach's. Ivan Novak asked Ralph what is that song, he never knew that Kraftwerk made it, as it's not on any album. Confused Ralph went to DJ to ask him about it, cause he wasn't sure himself.

 

[Aseratrix]

Kraftwerk would never agree to work with him

Well, its not like Arjen [the creative mind and guitarist of Ayreon] would beg for Kraftwerk to work with him, usually everybody in the music industry wants to, because he is a musical genius, and a very nice and agreeable person too, based on the account of all the people who interacted with the guy. But yeah, they move in different worlds completely. Its sad tho, that I get the appeal of K [even if I'm really unimpressed with their material], but you seem not to get the appeal of A. Well, no worries, we really went off a tangent here, but its fine by me. I wish all tangents would stay civil even in disagreement like this one was. At least I hope that you at least understand better what I seek in music. The next thing to clarify at some point should be movies. So strange that people with such different aesthetic sensibilities like me and you can still have a common ground in something like femdom. Truly amazing! One would think that people attracted to a thing like femdom would have other commonalities, but not really. We are not a herd, that's for sure!

 

[Mister_M]

he next thing to clarify at some point should be movies.

Like for example: what do you think about Ugetsu?

 

[Aseratrix]

Like for example: what do you think about Ugetsu?

"U gets u", it means that you get yourself, which is a feat, given the wisdom that one's self is the furthest away from one's own accurate perception as Nietzsche said.

 

[Mister_M]

"U gets u", it means that you get yourself, which is a feat, given the wisdom that one's self is the furthest away from one's own accurate perception as Nietzsche said.

You seriously weren't joking about different aesthetic sensibilities.

 

[LAKueiJin]

Hey everyone! To mark my most recent coming back from the dead after a 5 days absence on f95, (kuei jin don't get sired they just come back to unlife for having unfinished business in the mortal world, so blame it on my account name! ) here's a nice Chinese lesbian love story

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with a short femdomy scene at the end that I found! (make sure to turn on English captions to get what they're saying)

I knew I said I'd come back with an entry for Rise of the White Flower for the finder, but I haven't gotten around to finishing the latest update yet so that will have to wait for a few more days!

 

[Aseratrix]

Hey everyone! To mark my most recent coming back from the dead after a 5 days absence on f95, (kuei jin don't get sired they just come back to unlife for having unfinished business in the mortal world, so blame it on my account name! ) here's a nice Chinese lesbian love story

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with a short femdomy scene at the end that I found! (make sure to turn on English captions to get what they're saying)

I knew I said I'd come back with an entry for Rise of the White Flower for the finder, but I haven't gotten around to finishing the latest update yet so that will have to wait for a few more days!

No rush at all, take your time.

 

[Aseratrix]

It seems it would be a nightmare living in Japan, the comment section in particular is scary:

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I think its the same with South Korea or Hong Kong. China seems the friendliest of the east asian countries lol. I guess I'll stick dreaming about Finnland.

 

[Mister_M]

It seems it would be a nightmare living in Japan, the comment section in particular is scary:

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I think its the same with South Korea or Hong Kong. China seems the friendliest of the east asian countries lol. I guess I'll stick dreaming about Finnland.

I know some people who lived/live in east Asia and from what I gather from them is that Taiwan seems to be the nicest place to live for a foreigner. I also heard that while with higher crime level and with people who want to scam you for money if you're white when you'll get to know the countries better Thailand or Indonesia could be pretty good too, though definitely better for men than women. I never really got interested in this subject though, as I never wanted to live in any of these countries. I may add though that based on my Internet conversations and comments reading on various websites I found Chinese people often the most anti-foreigners and Indonesians the nicest (though my Internet conversations with people from Indonesia are mostly limited to fans of death metal or grindcore so I don't know if I can say they're typical examples of people in their country).

 

[Aseratrix]

I know some people who lived/live in east Asia and from what I gather from them is that Taiwan seems to be the nicest place to live for a foreigner. I also heard that while with higher crime level and with people who want to scam you for money if you're white when you'll get to know the countries better Thailand or Indonesia could be pretty good too, though definitely better for men than women. I never really got interested in this subject though, as I never wanted to live in any of these countries. I may add though that based on my Internet conversations and comments reading on various websites I found Chinese people often the most anti-foreigners and Indonesians the nicest (though my Internet conversations with people from Indonesia are mostly limited to fans of death metal or grindcore so I don't know if I can say they're typical examples of people in their country).

Overall I have no bad opinion of any East Asian country, and I do not seriously thought about moving there, just on a flight of fancy level [was never interested in South Asia, India in particular is creepy to me], but I was a bit sad about how paradoxically isolating modern Japanese culture seems to be for "foreigners". That's all really. Taiwan sounds interesting tho. + Metalheads everywhere are cool, they don't count, metal makes everyone a brother or a sister, its an unwritten law

 

[Mister_M]

Overall I have no bad opinion of any East Asian country, and I do not seriously thought about moving there, just on a flight of fancy level [was never interested in South Asia, India in particular is creepy to me], but I was a bit sad about how paradoxically isolating modern Japanese culture seems to be for "foreigners". That's all really.

I think it got worse in Japan some yrs ago (interviews with some Japanese directors seem to confirm that too), but I can't tell for sure as I don't live there. I work as a tourist guide though and I guided groups and people from various countries and usually folks from Japan (while still having a rather different approach to visiting than organized groups from other countries) were pretty friendly, quite open to talk about various subjects (especially when they noticed I speak some Japanese [definitely more than I can read ]), but some yrs ago they got more distant and cold, especially organized groups, cause folks who travel by themselves are usually nicer and simply like visiting other countries and meet new people. I also lived for almost 2 yrs with a Japanese guy in one apartment (we befriended at Uni and decided to rent an apartment together while I was starting 4th year of my studies). He also told me that I shouldn't trust Japanese people, that they are very stingy, like to lie a lot and talk about other people behind their backs. He said it was normal for example that when he goes to the elevetor in Japan when someone inside sees him coming promptly pushes the button to close the elevator door so he can't step in.

 

[Aseratrix]

I think it got worse in Japan some yrs ago (interviews with some Japanese directors seem to confirm that too), but I can't tell for sure as I don't live there. I work as a tourist guide though and I guided groups and people from various countries and usually folks from Japan (while still having a rather different approach to visiting than organized groups from other countries) were pretty friendly, quite open to talk about various subjects (especially when they noticed I speak some Japanese [definitely more than I can read ]), but some yrs ago they got more distant and cold, especially organized groups, cause folks who travel by themselves are usually nicer and simply like visiting other countries and meet new people. I also lived for almost 2 yrs with a Japanese guy in one apartment (we befriended at Uni and decided to rent an apartment together while I was starting 4th year of my studies). He also told me that I shouldn't trust Japanese people, that they are very stingy, like to lie a lot and talk about other people behind their backs. He said it was normal for example that when he goes to the elevetor in Japan when someone inside sees him coming promptly pushes the button to close the elevator door so he can't step in.

I bet its the dark side of the combination of exaggerated, inhuman rule-following politeness, the rigid hierarchy, and the overworking culture. Something gotta give after awhile. ...Or maybe I say this because I have the worst kind of blood: AB.

 

[Aseratrix]

"Blood type AB is a hybrid of A and B, two different personalities mixed together. They are often seen as dual-natured and complicated. For example, they are shy like A types, but also are outgoing like type B. Blood type AB is the rarest in Japan (and many other places in the world, too), so they are hard to find. This reinforces the stereotype that AB people are kawarimono 変わり者か　　もの, or eccentric."

Its kinda true tho. I'm crazy.

me = special ...nah...

 

[LAKueiJin]

Chinese people often the most anti-foreigners and Indonesians the nicest

I can't comment on the Indonesians or Japanese very much, but one of my best friends from the time I did an Erasmus scholarship in Italy was a Filipino girl who was very outgoing, very non-judgemental and friendly with everybody, and if I'm not mistaken, just like Indonesians, Filipinos are a related Austronesian people, (though they received a lot more Spanish and American influence from the time they were colonized by those 2 Imperial powers) so maybe Austronesians in general tend to be friendly? Obviously no stereotype holds true in too many cases, and I really should shut up about this given that my sample size is one person, and she was also an atheist, which is very atypical in the Philippines...

However, the part I could chime in on is "anti-foreigner" Chinese, as I had three mainland Chinese friends and interacted with a lot more on the internet, and... eh, I'd kinda agree with you with some caveats. Chinese tend to be at least patriotic if not outright nationalistic even if they are leftists, (partly a product of their culture being ancient and their empire having been the wealthiest on Earth for about half of recorded human history and very culturally prolific, but far more so I think a product of their country having been very poor in the past 2 centuries, carved up and raided several times by European colonial powers and Japan since the first Opium wars, and Maoist propaganda, so a lot of Chinese grew up with the idea that, except perhaps Russia, China has no friends in the world and most foreign powers wish to exploit it when it is weak and hate/envy it when it is strong) BUT almost none of them in my experience were racists and if they realize that you are foreigner who respects/knows more about their culture, traditional arts, language or history than they expect from a foreigner, they will often warm up to you and become very friendly.

Basically, at least in my experience, most Chinese are nice and do not hate foreigners, but a lot of them will assume foreigners hate/look down on them, (which is not that wild of an assumption given for example the rising anti-Asian hate crimes in the US) so they can come across as anti-foreigner. And, well, if you mention Taiwan or the South China Sea you'll most likely get into an argument just as much as if you bring up Okinawan independence to most Japanese or tell them that the Kuril Islands and Sakhalin are rightfully Russian - East Asians in general tend to be very nationalistic when it comes to territorial claims, at least in my experience.

If we're talking living there I hear mainland China actually has extremely low criminality (I've seen vids from female expats living there, a Slovak girl and an Australian one, talking about how it's 100% safe for them to go visit a night market at 2 am in the morning in Pijamas in cities like Shenzhen or Hangzhou and never get assaulted or robbed), has very uniquely-designed modern cities with excellent public transport, infrastructure, large parks, green spaces, theatres or public cultural centres, some of them even with historic centres, which is quite rare outside Europe, but I've seen even American-born Chinese say they wouldn't be able to lead a very dignified existence in China, as, well, a lot of the crucial everyday apps that you have to use these days need you to read Mandarin quite well, not just speak it... Taiwan is definitely much more liberal (I think they're the only country in Asia to have officially legalized gay marriage), and probably more English-language friendly (at least there is Google Maps there if nothing else...), so I'd probably agree with your choice that it's the easiest to adapt in/friendliest for a European or Western migrant who doesn't speak the local language.

 

[LAKueiJin]

It seems it would be a nightmare living in Japan, the comment section in particular is scary:

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I think its the same with South Korea or Hong Kong. China seems the friendliest of the east asian countries lol. I guess I'll stick dreaming about Finnland.

To be fair when it comes to legal barriers for immigration and the like, all of the developed East Asian countries are pretty bad from what I gather. For example you are not even allowed to work in either SK or China unless you already have at least a Bachelor's degree as an immigrant, so if you go there for studies your parents/scholarships have to support you fully as you can't legally be employed part-time. (I think Japan might've changed legislation for this some years ago, but it's definitely still the case in China)

If you want to entertain the idea of moving to East Asia as a flight of fancy though, the answer is still Japan for 3 simple reasons:

1. Porn is legal there
2. There's more femdom content being made
3. They have Mistress Land vids like

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- case closed!

 

[Mister_M]

Filipino girl who was very outgoing

I've met only one Filipino person in my life and she was very nice. I also think in Indonesia you don't stand out that much as a foreigner cause their physical features aren't as unified as with Chinese or Japanese.

almost none of them in my experience were racists and if they realize that you are foreigner who respects/knows more about their culture, traditional arts, language or history than they expect from a foreigner, they will often warm up to you and become very friendly.

I didn't mean that they all are like that. I had a Chinese students in my group at uni and they were pretty nice, though at the time - as I said - I mostly befriended a Japanese guy and he HATED Chinese, always making fun of them and not only him, they were also 3 other Japanese students at the time (3 girls) and I remember once when were going back from the club we went pass some Chinese folks and they started asking me questions like: "do you know they eat dogs?" and stuff like that. I also met a nice Hongkong guy, who helped me with obtaining some films and turned out he's a Laibach fan (plus Laibach plays in Hongkong from time to time, so there must be some decent people there after all! ). My friend who lives in UK nowadays (aiming to be a film critic there) has quite a lot of Chinese friends. I guess saying they're nationalistic sounds about right; maybe I tend to equal nationalistic stance with anti-foreign sentiment cause it's often the case in Poland.

There's some good femdom content in Taiwan and China too btw. And even if percentage wise there's less femdom in China than in Japan 20% of Chinese population is still more than all the Japanese combined (don't quote me though, I'm bad at math) so I'm sure we can find some pretty good amount of femdom there. Do you know any Indonesian femdom btw?

 

[Aseratrix]

To be fair when it comes to legal barriers for immigration and the like, all of the developed East Asian countries are pretty bad from what I gather. For example you are not even allowed to work in either SK or China unless you already have at least a Bachelor's degree as an immigrant, so if you go there for studies your parents/scholarships have to support you fully as you can't legally be employed part-time. (I think Japan might've changed legislation for this some years ago, but it's definitely still the case in China)

If you want to entertain the idea of moving to East Asia as a flight of fancy though, the answer is still Japan for 3 simple reasons:

1. Porn is legal there
2. There's more femdom content being made
3. They have Mistress Land vids like

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or

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- case closed!

If you have the Bachelor's degree earned at home does it count?

Anyways, yeah, not only do they have the best femdom [not only Mistress Land, but Boots Yakata, Yapoo Market, etc], but I think East Asian girls look amazing. Too bad they have been duped lately that double eyelids are automatically more beautiful [well at least in Japan and Korea, because as far as I can tell many Chinese have the double eyelids naturally]. I really don't think so. They ruin what makes them special, and stunning in my opinion.

I didn't mean that they all are like that. I had a Chinese students in my group at uni and they were pretty nice, though at the time - as I said - I mostly befriended a Japanese guy and he HATED Chinese, always making fun of them and not only him, they were also 3 other Japanese students at the time (3 girls) and I remember once when were going back from the club we went pass some Chinese folks and they started asking me questions like: "do you know they eat dogs?"

Looking in from the outside - while I know the historical issues which fuel it - the hate between East Asian countries is one of the saddest political/cultural phenomena ever.
Do Japanese and Chinese can instantly tell themselves apart based on how they look? Because at least in SOME instances they don't look that different?

There's some good femdom content in Taiwan and China too btw. And even if percentage wise there's less femdom in China than in Japan 20% of Chinese population is still more than all the Japanese combined (don't quote me though, I'm bad at math) so I'm sure we can find some pretty good amount of femdom there.

Indeed, especially in the last 10 or so years they popped up, which is great! I wonder about Korean femdom tho? Or Vietnam? ETC...Even Indian [altho too dark skinned for me] lol?

 

[Mister_M]

I wonder about Korean femdom tho?

I've some Korean femdom, not much though. I'm not big fan of Korean stuff and def prefer Hong Kong, Japan, Taiwan and lately Indonesia. Edit: I remember I've seen some Thai femdom, but only a little bit.

Do Japanese and Chinese can instantly tell themselves apart based on how they look? Because at least in SOME instances they don't look that different?

Of course not. Plus there are some guys like Takeshi Kaneshiro, who isn't really Japanese, but took on Japanese name and became quite succesful there. Though he's mostly a big name in Hong Kong/China I feel. There are more examples like that. Plus in a lot of HK, Taiwanese, Chinese movies it's customary to depict Japanese as violent barbarians, murderers and rapists. Maybe not so much nowadays but it was definitely the norm in the 70s. But still foreigners in HK/Chinese films are usually cast as villains (from Ip Man movies and spin-off [with Scott Adkins, Dave Bautista, Hiroyuki Ikeuchi, Darren Shahlavi playing bad guys] to widely popular Wolf Warrior fllms [Scott Adkins, Frank Grillo]).

Regarding their looks I really dislike that they make their skins lighter and more white, some people there have nicer, darker skins, but for cultural reasons they tend to whiten them. But that's obviously coming from my own taste as I prefer ebony goddesses