Surprised that certain very "divisive" fetishes/kinks would spook people away from the game?
Really?
Not to antagonize, but it continues to fascinate me how the majority of guys on F95 look at the three letter kink as being the root of all evil. Case in point, I not long ago saw someone post that anyone liking the three letter word kink needed psychological counseling (and he was not joking). But societal norms and mores would not hold the same view. I challenged him to a hypothetical scenario. Go to the nearest city, approach random folks and share with them that he likes to play games where he bangs his mother and sisters (for which he thought acceptable game behavior). I, on the other hand, will approach people and tell them I like to play games where I swap/swing. Comparing those two scenarios, which would elicit the greater sense of disgust/outrage?
What most, as in almost 100%, of those who react so negatively to the three letter word games continue to fail to understand is this: it's a difference between a first person and third person perspective. A first person player inserts himself into the game and becomes emotionally engaged and their reactions are typically (not always), just that--emotional. A third person player such as myself takes on the role of a manipulator and does not feel threatened or lessened by what's going on in a swap/sharing/swinging/cucking scene. We are more dispassionate in our approach and our responses.
But by their very nature, all kinks/fetishes/perversions are divisive. Too bad some are unwilling to objectively accept that reality.