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Thats not really a valid example, people who like incest in games don't actually want to fuck their family members (well most don't I hope) nor do most people who like NTR/sharing/cuck fans actually want their partner in real life getting dicked down by multiple dudes (but some do). In the case of incest it's usually a super model level hot mom or sister that you know isn't actually a familial relation so it's easy to separate fantasy from reality in a game context and stick your dick in it.Not to antagonize, but it continues to fascinate me how the majority of guys on F95 look at the three letter kink as being the root of all evil. Case in point, I not long ago saw someone post that anyone liking the three letter word kink needed psychological counseling (and he was not joking). But societal norms and mores would not hold the same view. I challenged him to a hypothetical scenario. Go to the nearest city, approach random folks and share with them that he likes to play games where he bangs his mother and sisters (for which he thought acceptable game behavior). I, on the other hand, will approach people and tell them I like to play games where I swap/swing. Comparing those two scenarios, which would elicit the greater sense of disgust/outrage?
What most, as in almost 100%, of those who react so negatively to the three letter word games continue to fail to understand is this: it's a difference between a first person and third person perspective. A first person player inserts himself into the game and becomes emotionally engaged and their reactions are typically (not always), just that--emotional. A third person player such as myself takes on the role of a manipulator and does not feel threatened or lessened by what's going on in a swap/sharing/swinging/cucking scene. We are more dispassionate in our approach and our responses.
But by their very nature, all kinks/fetishes/perversions are divisive. Too bad some are unwilling to objectively accept that reality.
But it is hard for most people mainly the males of the species to not mate guard any females they see as potential mates and a biological need to ensure paternity of their potential offspring, that's why most guys will date a woman who is viewed as "easy" but not see her as a wife or mother candidate. I think it's just harder to suppress that urge to protect what they view as theirs/mine in a huge percentage of the male population and a lot of them are repulsed by those who are. I can't really comment if it's worthy of needing therapy but it certainly isn't natural to be comfortable with somebody that could be possibly a mate being with multiple different potential sperm donors.
You say it's simply looking at it from a third person point but that's not really accurate. I know I don't wish to see another man be NTRed in real life or a game setting (exceptions being real life monsters). It's sad as fuck watching a man die inside and watch his soul be crushed by somebody he thought was his partner in this mess we call life. Or maybe if you just haven't seen a real life example of a friend/relative of that it doesn't hit home enough to understand the real costs of "oh look she cucked him, what a loser" and your just able to laugh it off.
But who knows, I'm just another rando bringing my own bias and prejudice into a complicated topic on a totally important porn game forum