As a first person player myself, I can only agree. Though I gotta say, as somebody else said, I dislike all kinds of NTR, not only the one flagged here, anyway. I just try not to cry out about it but just ignore games that don't support my side of the kink spectrum enough (and am willing to tolerate some amounts of unliked kinks for a good story without everything being ruined).
However that I do not agree with. It may be that some have a brittle self-security. However I could just as well argue that people who flout their perceived high self-security to show that they are way more grounded need this just as much to stabilize themselves.
I don't think outfreuding others is of any use. (Almost) no kink or lack thereof is a threat to others, so why worry about them? NTR isn't good, NTR isn't bad, NTR is just a taste, just like pineapple pizza, trance music, or daily soaps on TV. Enjoy what you enjoy, let others enjoy what they do. Neither pro nor contra NTR is bad, it is just when people start arguing that their side is somehow better or more in the right that it gets annoying.