He's not toxic, your comment didn't have a "just make it avoidable ntr for my vanilla bros/gals" vibe.
^--- This. I'll explain.
I just think Twomeire and I have conflicting fetishes. I admit I will NEVER understand the cuck/NTR mindset or how it can be hot. I've been on both sides of the NTR situation IRL, caught a girl cheating on me and found out I was the other man. Neither situation made me "hot", rather violently angry and I dropped both women like a ton of bricks.
As someone who does not share well, casual/open relationships chaff at me. I've always been of the idea of whats's mine is mine and who's mine, is mine. So while I hate the phrase "I don't want no whores" as MCs are some of the biggest in games, I do want the MC to be special and not have girls interested in him purely because he's the flavor of ice cream they haven't tried yet. No thanks Min, Chloe, Dahlia.
Now, I understand fetishes do not make sense, we can't help what makes our dicks hard and vaginas wet even to those that have said fetishes. Hell, I've got a huge defloration fetish, even though I know its rare for a virgin to have a hymen for a number of reasons, the sight of my dick forcing its way in and blood and vaginal fluid leaking out around it gets me going faster then rocket fuel.
All that being said, I support your right to have NTR routes in game, I just don't want to see them or deal with them and in my experience, a lot of otherwise good stories do not tag themselves properly, or even if they say NTR is avoidable, its really not, you as the player just don't witness it, or the LI's are not in a proper relationship with you yet which is the same thing in my book. I think some devs just seem to enjoy fucking with their players/readership.
I just want to make sure if this is a game I'll support or care about that equal time is spent developing NON NTR/cuck routes. So far that hasn't been the case. The Devs seems to of wanted to do all the niche fetishes first and at time of me playing (.4 update) there was a lot of NTR/cuck/beta content but little for those who like to take charge. A good example of games that are able to walk this line is The Tyrant, it has a METRIC FUCKTON of NTR content but, also has the ability to turn that off fully in the start. So for me I never have to deal with Davide trying to fuck my women and even get a chance to completely ruin the competition and for NTR bros, you can enjoy all that shit I dont have to deal with.
I understand, its a monumental feat to balance all these opinions without tipping the tray. At the end of the day, you wont make everyone happy. My personal wish is that the girls who have not been shown as fucking other guys are left alone for the MC to explore with and that he gets a name for himself as "oh, thats the guy who's down for anything, (don't)fuck these other fuckboi's, go to him instead." and we can slowly edge out all the other guys in the story and just give the girls a chance to explore their fetishes with the MC/other girls alone. But like I said, its just my wish and I'm only one supporter/viewer, if the Devs want to make it NTR focused, thats fine, i'l wish them luck and add this to my unwatch list.