I guess but that is only this forum, most of this world (vns) ntr means everything under the sun and has different words to explain different groupings. I love stealing LIs which is under a form of ntr by its real definition, but here it doesn't even have a tag. That's lame to me... but that's just one man's opinion which is cool you don't share
I'm afraid that all of that is irrelevant.
The only thing that matters on this site, is the rules this site have defined.
Our opinion may differ on what constitutes it, that doesn't alter the fact.
The site rule is what matters, not 101 opinions.
Stealing an LI is Netori. Doesn't actually count as NTR, under most people's definitions, certainly not under site definition.
Only Netorase (unwilling) and Netorare (willing) seem to gain the tag.