Not to antagonize, but it continues to fascinate me how the majority of guys on F95 look at the three letter kink as being the root of all evil.
Ach, wat ze hell, since it's ze open mike Freud impersonating hour anyway... see, some folks have an exceedingly brittle self-security that needs to be continuously upheld and protected at all costs in their own eyes, lest their precious little fantasy falls apart. This is why they would never leave a provocation - any perceived challenge to their "top alpha male" status - unanswered, even if even they know it would be in their own interest to let it go, even if there are no witnesses around (if there are, that changes the game to having a projected image to uphold, whereas otherwise they only have their own insecurities threatened).
Traditionally, being able to
solely possess "the female of one's choice" is of course a large part of such an image, which is why these fine folks tend to react with extreme aggression to the mere
idea that they would allow anyone else near their prized trophies, for that would be fully incompatible for them with continuing to think of themselves as "top dogs". Incidentally, for the same reason, said "trophies" will likely find it exceedingly difficult to part ways with these gentlemen if and when they decide to do so - perceived failure to assert ownership works the same way even when there are no third parties involved, not to mention what getting rejected does to a brittle ego.
Hence all that over-the-top sabre-rattling every time the peril of unwittingly ending up playing an NTR game arises - by the time it happens to you in a game it's a
fait accompli, and no amount of save reloading can erase the horrible shame of having allowed it to happen to you; even without witnesses, their precious self-image is now shattered and they do not know how to be anything other than the center of their little power fantasy. In their world, you cannot be a person of any value unless you constantly exhibit absolute power over everything and everyone you perceive to be "your domain". Failure to do so gets you demoted to worthless refuse. Kindness, talent, happiness, accomplishments, empathy, even the respect of others - those are all irrelevant as soon as they fail to assert their will over everyone else
every.
single.
time. Which NTR is rather obviously anathema to. I mean,
how could one possibly be in a happy relationship with someone without the power to decide for them who gets access to their genitals... It's crazy talk, that!