JorogrArt

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Yo, I might not have had that much romantic relationships in my life (I'd say 1.5, because the 0.5 was more like dating a crush that didn't work out in a short, but serious relationship), but what I realised is that nowadays people don't really know what they want out of themselves, let alone a serious relationship with marriage. I don't know the details of your relationship and I do not think it should be any of our business to be informed - it's your personal life and you owe us none of that stuff. If she decided to leave for "the grass is greener on the side" then she's an absolute lowlife not worth any of your time, because why the fuck one would waste their time pretending to call someone special, but acting absolutely oppositely. I'm aware feelings for someone slowly vanish overtime, but one must also carry a brain on their shoulders and actually think for a second why they chose to be with that person, evaluate their personality, their beliefs, instead of "yeah, I'm stringing myself along you, because of the vibes". Yeah, how about fuck that "feeling vibes" attidude. Relationships are built upon strong family belief than "live in the moment" type of lifestyle. But regardless, you should take a break from the game development, IF NEEDED, but don't burn out yourself even more by using this as a deep distraction, it might hurt you even more down the line. I felt that way when I had a depression during my college years studying video game development then quitting college in pursuit of culinary school then burning out again due to toxic mental environment and heart condition. Break ups are a harsh thing emotionally and physically. Been there, experienced that. But what saves us from insanity is the fact that we do not need someone else, if we love ourselves sufficiently. So love yourself! I believe you're a tough and kind person and good luck to you! You'll get through this! We all do...

And apologies for the semi-rant, I'm just exhausted of narcissistic people viewing relationships as a "short term resources alliance" than something that might not occur again in their lifetime.
I don't disagree with much of what you've said. There's a reason I fell in love with her in the first place. For the life of me I cannot recall what that reason was. I think a lot of people go into relationships and/or marriages highlighting a few areas of common interest while handwaving away things that are potentially fundamental incompatibilities--the type of things that can fester and destroy a marriage over time.

I am of the belief that you are responsible for your own happiness and that if you are expecting your happiness to be provided by someone else, then you are not in optimal shape to be in the dating pool and destined to be unhappy forever. I also believe that you should enter marriage with a bit of selflessness--that a marriage is something you and your partner share a goal and strive towards. It doesn't work if one party views the marriage as a SERVICE that is provided TO them.

Ironically, since the papers were signed and submitted, the (ex-)wife and I have been much more friendly and candid with each other. We agree that we should have never gotten married in the first place and that we make better friends than spouses. I'm helping her pack and I'll help her move into her new place. I was once a professional mover and It's the last time I'll get to metaphorically "flex" while she's around.
 
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I don't disagree with much of what you've said. There's a reason I fell in love with her in the first place. For the life of me I cannot recall what that reason was. I think a lot of people go into relationships and/or marriages highlighting a few areas of common interest while handwaving away things that are potentially fundamental incompatibilities--the type of things that can fester and destroy a marriage over time.

I am of the belief that you are responsible for your own happiness and that if you are expecting your happiness to be provided by someone else, then you are not in optimal shape to be in the dating pool and destined to be unhappy forever. I also believe that you should enter marriage with a bit of selflessness--that a marriage is something you and your partner share a goal and strive towards. It doesn't work if one party views the marriage as a SERVICE that is provided TO them.

Ironically, since the papers were signed and submitted, the (ex-)wife and I have been much more friendly and candid with each other. We agree that we should have never gotten married in the first place and that we make better friends than spouses. I'm helping her pack and I'll help her move into her new place. I was once a professional mover and It's the last time I'll get to metaphorically "flex" while she's around.
Hopefully the rough transition ends on a smooth note, for both of you. And you're correct - many people just rely too much on butterflies inside their heads and stomachs than the gritty reality. It's always easier to chase those rose colored glasses effect than to meet our realistic, unhinged fears and overcome come. Hence why, after the last break up, I promised myself to never again rely on physical appearance or "vibes", but rather general compatibility for long term relationship. Better to be alone, regardless of how brutal loneless can feel than to be in a dreadful, suicidical relationship.

Kind of got over my head with these topics, so I won't continue due F95 off-topic policy on game threads, but sending an invisible hug. It might not help, but that's how I like expressing my support, whenever someone is down :D.
 
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This is a very good idea and I am going to do this. Thank you!

You rely on your friend group to tell you how awesome you are and how shitty she was in the aftermath of a breakup/divorce which is... useful, but you know you are getting the most biased feedback possible. What would be more helpful is an honest, objective breakdown of what happened and steps to move forward into bachelorhood in a healthy way.
my brain read bachelorhood as bonerhood and i refuse to change it
 
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I don't disagree with much of what you've said. There's a reason I fell in love with her in the first place. For the life of me I cannot recall what that reason was. I think a lot of people go into relationships and/or marriages highlighting a few areas of common interest while handwaving away things that are potentially fundamental incompatibilities--the type of things that can fester and destroy a marriage over time.

I am of the belief that you are responsible for your own happiness and that if you are expecting your happiness to be provided by someone else, then you are not in optimal shape to be in the dating pool and destined to be unhappy forever. I also believe that you should enter marriage with a bit of selflessness--that a marriage is something you and your partner share a goal and strive towards. It doesn't work if one party views the marriage as a SERVICE that is provided TO them.

Ironically, since the papers were signed and submitted, the (ex-)wife and I have been much more friendly and candid with each other. We agree that we should have never gotten married in the first place and that we make better friends than spouses. I'm helping her pack and I'll help her move into her new place. I was once a professional mover and It's the last time I'll get to metaphorically "flex" while she's around.
hi sir can you please rework on the kiss in the shower
 

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Just an update on where everything is at. This month has been dribs and drabs in terms of when I can actually work on the game. It's very frustrating but it is what it is. Almost all of my time has been consumed by either working or packing boxes. The update remains close to finished but because I can't work on it in a meaningful capacity, I haven't been able to make the progress I want in terms of finishing and testing and won't be able to.

my brain read bachelorhood as bonerhood and i refuse to change it
I feel like there's a song parody there...

o/` It's a beautiful day in this Bonerhood, a beautiful day for Boner! Would you be mine? Won't you be mine. I have always wanted to have Jorogr... just... like... YOU! o/`

hi sir can you please rework on the kiss in the shower
Could you be more specific?

Just so you know, the #1 request I get for the shower scene from people is "Why come I can't put it in without dying? I should be able to fuckk the mom who should put out family style imo..."
 

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Just an update on where everything is at. This month has been dribs and drabs in terms of when I can actually work on the game....

o/` It's a beautiful day in this Bonerhood, a beautiful day for Boner! Would you be mine? Won't you be mine. I have always wanted to have Jorogr... just... like... YOU! o/`
Real Life before internet life.

For that song parody let do some of that heavy lifting.
 
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Just an update on where everything is at. This month has been dribs and drabs in terms of when I can actually work on the game. It's very frustrating but it is what it is. Almost all of my time has been consumed by either working or packing boxes. The update remains close to finished but because I can't work on it in a meaningful capacity, I haven't been able to make the progress I want in terms of finishing and testing and won't be able to.



I feel like there's a song parody there...

o/` It's a beautiful day in this Bonerhood, a beautiful day for Boner! Would you be mine? Won't you be mine. I have always wanted to have Jorogr... just... like... YOU! o/`



Could you be more specific?

Just so you know, the #1 request I get for the shower scene from people is "Why come I can't put it in without dying? I should be able to fuckk the mom who should put out family style imo..."
Is there going to be a pussy oral sex scene by any chance (considering the teasing hints in extra scene)? It's something so specific that barely any dev adds that.
 
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Is there going to be a pussy oral sex scene by any chance (considering the teasing hints in extra scene)? It's something so specific that barely any dev adds that.
A Meredith cunnilingus scene is something I've wanted to do for a long time and I've put it off because so many people I talk to seem to be disinterested... a planned (optional) Meredith foot job scene has been put off for the same reason.

There will probably be a cunnilingus scene next year and it might very well be the next Meredith Spank Bank scene added. I've wanted to make some minor restructuring of Meredith's current story. IMO, everything up to the handjob scene (and especially the next-morning "debriefing" scene in the hallway) has a good flow to it, but the sequence of things after that goes way too fast. MC basically gets a BJ and a Tit Job back-to-back which is bad design.

Anyways, the way that relates to the cunnilingus scene is that the story is SUPPOSED to unfold as MC earning access to more and more of Meredith's body through his deeds. There's an unwritten rule in Five of a Kind Cinematic Universe that MILF/GILF characters are much more reluctant to take their clothes off without proper convincing, which is why Meredith gives MC a handjob and BJ before she's comfortable taking her clothes off in front of him. MC earns access to her breasts after finishing the Kissing scene (Kissing II). He should have to earn access to her "peach" by learning how to go down on her and do it well (earning Kissing III in the process), thereby earning access "down under."

Here's a quick-and-dirty drawing I made this past Mother's Day teasing this idea. (It's VHS-scrambled because it's the public-facing, non-Subscriber version)

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Anyways, the way that relates to the cunnilingus scene is that the story is SUPPOSED to unfold as MC earning access to more and more of Meredith's body through his deeds. There's an unwritten rule in Five of a Kind Cinematic Universe that MILF/GILF characters are much more reluctant to take their clothes off without proper convincing, which is why Meredith gives MC a handjob and BJ before she's comfortable taking her clothes off in front of him. MC earns access to her breasts after finishing the Kissing scene (Kissing II). He should have to earn access to her "peach" by learning how to go down on her and do it well (earning Kissing III in the process), thereby earning access "down under."
You also can add to this something like: Meredith's best friend convinces her(on phone) that the MC should return the favor to keep things fair.
 
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Cunnilingus scenes being so entirely lacking in so many games is so weird. I've yet to meet or hear of a woman (that wasn't asexual or disinterested in sex, of course) that wasn't into it or even needed it to help get an orgasm. It SHOULD be a part of a lot of games, if only to pad out character content.
 
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Cunnilingus scenes being so entirely lacking in so many games is so weird. I've yet to meet or hear of a woman (that wasn't asexual or disinterested in sex, of course) that wasn't into it or even needed it to help get an orgasm. It SHOULD be a part of a lot of games, if only to pad out character content.
This is an on-going trend I've noticed across porn media in general. I don't know why so many devs try to follow professional porn closely while ignoring the realism of human anatomy, especially female's, because in porn most concepts are thrown out of the window. I have not been with many women in my life, but most didn't orgasm just from penetration (and boobjob is actually hurtful), but from foreplay and clitoris/pussy stimulation more. I would justify the devs, if the scenes were quite complex to animate or general consumer base heftily dislikes it, but yet add things like anal, scat, grool (I'm kind of into it), pet slave, humilation/BDSM and many more FAR disgusting fetishes that make oral sound like a child's play.
 

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Сцена куннилингуса с Мередит — это то, что я хотел сделать уже давно, но откладывал, потому что многие люди, с которыми я общался, не проявляли к ней интереса... запланированная (необязательная) сцена футджоба с Мередит была отложена по той же причине.

Вероятно, в следующем году будет сцена куннилингуса, и вполне возможно, что это будет следующая добавленная сцена Meredith Spank Bank. Я хотел немного переработать текущую историю Meredith. На мой взгляд, все до сцены с дрочкой (и особенно сцена «разбора полетов» на следующее утро в коридоре) имеет хороший поток, но последовательность событий после этого идет слишком быстро. MC в основном получает минет и титьки один за другим, что является плохим дизайном.

В любом случае, то, как это связано со сценой куннилингуса, заключается в том, что история ПРЕДПОЛАГАЕТСЯ разворачиваться, когда ГГ получает доступ ко все большему и большему телу Мередит через свои деяния. В киновселенной Five of a Kind есть негласное правило, что персонажи MILF/GILF гораздо более неохотно снимают одежду без надлежащего убеждения, поэтому Мередит делает ГГ дрочит и делает минет, прежде чем она сможет спокойно снять одежду перед ним. ГГ получает доступ к ее груди после завершения сцены поцелуя (Поцелуи II). Он должен был получить доступ к ее "персику", научившись спускаться к ней и делать это хорошо (зарабатывая Поцелуи III в процессе), тем самым получая доступ "вниз".

Вот набросок, который я сделал на прошлый День матери, чтобы продемонстрировать эту идею. (Он зашифрован на VHS, поскольку это общедоступная версия, не предназначенная для подписчиков)

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Это просто замечательная новость ! по поводу сюжета ! Супер ! Хочу еще сказать , что согласен с предыдущим комментарием , что прелюдия и возбуждение гораздо более возбуждающие , чем когда все происходит как у порноактеров . А если прелюдия касается мамы , то это вообще горящее пламя возбуждения . и еще пару слов о твоей жизненной ситуации . брат , я это прошел и с уверенностью скажу , что все будет хорошо , твоя жизнь не закончилась , возможно только началась , с любовью твой поклонник . :хихикаю::любовь:
 

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Cunnilingus scenes being so entirely lacking in so many games is so weird. I've yet to meet or hear of a woman (that wasn't asexual or disinterested in sex, of course) that wasn't into it or even needed it to help get an orgasm. It SHOULD be a part of a lot of games, if only to pad out character content.
This is an on-going trend I've noticed across porn media in general. I don't know why so many devs try to follow professional porn closely while ignoring the realism of human anatomy, especially female's, because in porn most concepts are thrown out of the window. I have not been with many women in my life, but most didn't orgasm just from penetration (and boobjob is actually hurtful), but from foreplay and clitoris/pussy stimulation more. I would justify the devs, if the scenes were quite complex to animate or general consumer base heftily dislikes it, but yet add things like anal, scat, grool (I'm kind of into it), pet slave, humilation/BDSM and many more FAR disgusting fetishes that make oral sound like a child's play.
Most men aren't actually that interested in doing this, is the simple reality. So in porn games, which are fantasy, people see little reason to add these scenes. In porn games women cum easily from things men enjoy, women enjoy things men are more likely to enjoy etc. This isn't remotely complicated to understand, step outside of your own perspective. I don't care if YOU like doing it, most men don't. It's a meme that comes up as a joke fairly often for a reason. I'm frankly not even sure in female fantasy women actually are as interested people seem to think they are. Considering some of the books I read by women didn't have it, and all of the degenerate women on the internet core fetish seems to be being choked, not being eaten out. Anyways the lack of interest in the scene doesn't surprise me for these reasons, its probably more of a niche fetish to have in a game focused on men then footjobs are. Men not interested in footjobs would probably choose the footjob scene over it if given the choice. I say this as a man with no interest in that content either.

I personally have zero interested in this sort of scene, and skip them whenever possible in a game. It's a porn fantasy, eating pussy isn't a fetish I have.

Oh one last thing.
"even needed it to help get an orgasm. It SHOULD be a part of a lot of games, "
This is another part of what I'm talking about regarding this being a male fantasy. In a male fantasy, you don't need to use oral to get a woman off. You're that good with your dick, do you see the problem here. Your argument is that we should be bring the inadequacies of reality into a fantasy because in reality a lot of mens experience is that they had to get good at oral to compensate for the lack of sexual skills with their cock. Or limitations of the male refractory period. Well chad mc thundercock firehose doesn't have that problem, so why would he care or do this.

The only argument add the content that makes any actual sense is, well thats my fetish so I want that content. Everything else is a bad argument. Arguments against it? Niche fetish, depends on if the creator has the will and time. Simple as.
 
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The issue:
I've wanted to make some minor restructuring of Meredith's current story. IMO, everything up to the handjob scene (and especially the next-morning "debriefing" scene in the hallway) has a good flow to it, but the sequence of things after that goes way too fast.
The solution:
a planned (optional) Meredith foot job scene
 
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