what can i do if i want my slave together but at the end of the weeks saids " Since the rules forbid the relationship between Productivity and Sincerity, they are forced apart "?
1. open rules assistant (R key. or found under tools)
2. select "obedient slaves" ruleset.
3. select behavior
4. scroll down to "relationship rules" and switch it to "permissive". This allows your slaves to become lovers.
5. click on "apply rule" to save it and apply it to all obedient slaves. In some older versions you would need to first click save and then apply.
Additionally. look through your other rules make sure there is no other ruleset that automatically triggers and sets slave relationships to "just friends" (slaves forbidden to be lovers. allowed to be friends) or "restrictive" (friends forbidden to be lovers. forbidden to be friends with each other)
Personally I only keep 2 rule sets
Obedient Slaves
Disobedient Slaves
To avoid race conditions and rule conflicts.