Yeah. There are loads and loads of people on this forum who will keep coming back to games they supposedly hate, and devs that are supposedly milking everyone, just to bitch in the comments. Soldano kinda sorta has a point, I mean sometimes the praise does get kinda gushy. But, I'd rather make a dev blush or cringe than stomp all over his work. I mean, I'm making the dev feel good about his work, that's the least I can do for his free labor; it's a positive exchange for both of us. Meanwhile, taking a fat shit all over someone's work... like, not giving helpful criticism, or just voting with your disengagement, but just putting your stink all over it.. that seems like the pathetic thing to do, and it's just a negative self-indulgent exchange that doesn't get you a better product, or a better anything. I honestly doubt it even makes the person complaining feel better really.
Yeah, I wanted to make a similar point yesterday but, well, tired.
What the post said about brown-nosing is understandable but it glosses over the fact that a good chunk of the "criticism" is just plain hatred, simply false, or based on nothing. Constructive criticism I have no issue with even when I don't agree (as was the case a few pages back with the discussion on Nicki and why she sucks : I very obviously don't agree but the people discussing it were making understable points and the disagreement was "valid", even though it seemed batshit crazy to me). But a lot of the negative comments are extreme and thus, the defense tends to be a bit extreme sometimes too.
But yeah : positivity is way more enjoyable than negativity. I don't get the people that engage with things they don't like only to post like "abandon-ware, fuck this dev, another milk-factory (hey, that's my mom you're talking about!!), etc", or people that hate-watch a show just to go complain about it online.
Regarding your very last sentence : I don't think you have to even doubt. Negativity, especially wilfull negativity, only breeds negativity. That's a law that seems to apply to many, many things in life (including positive ones :
seek positivity and you'll see more and more of it [obviously excluding extreme situations like war zones or being the last born in an Alabama-incest-orgy-as-breakfast-family]). Well, it's a little early for an esoteric conversation about the mechanisms of the mind, but you get my point.